How to talk_to_parents_so_they'll_understand_ppt
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This document provides tips for communicating effectively with parents. It discusses establishing everyday communication, having two-way respectful discussions by listening without judgment, speaking honestly while understanding different perspectives, and avoiding arguments. When direct communication doesn't work, it suggests accepting decisions graciously and seeking guidance from other trusted adults. The overall message is that regular, respectful communication built on honesty, understanding, and compromise is important for healthy relationships.
How to talk_to_parents_so_they'll_understand_ppt
- 1. o Talk to Parents How t derstand so T hey’ll Un
- 2. Where do we learn how to communicate?
- 3. How would you best describe the communication tactic used in your home?
- 4. Avoid Be Defensive
- 5. Being Right Mind Reading
- 6. Blame Game Win Every Arguement
- 7. Proverbs 13:10 Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice. James 4:1-2 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don’t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.
- 8. What is your Communication Style?
- 9. Why is Communication so Important?
- 10. • Passes information along • Foundation of good relationships • Helps you get what you need.
- 11. • Gives you self-esteem. • Helps you think better. • Makes peaceful communities.
- 12. Tips on How to Talk to your Parents so They’ ll Listen
- 13. #1—Talk About Everyday Stuff, & do it Every Day
- 14. • Find something trivial to chat about each day. • It’s never too late to start.
- 15. #2—Communication is a Two Way Street
- 16. A. Be Clear and Direct • Find a good time to talk to them • Plan your strategy • Ask everyone involved to please listen before responding.
- 17. Proverbs 18:13 He who answers before listening- that is his folly and his shame. James 1:19 My dear brothers and sisters, be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry.
- 18. B. Be Honest • Keep the focus on what you want and how you feel • If you're honest, your parents will be likely to believe what you say. • Earn their trust.
- 19. Ephesians 4:15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is that Head, that is, Christ. Proverbs 24:26 An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.
- 20. C. Try to Understand their Point of View • Ask them what their concerns are. • Don’t assume you know what they’ re thinking. • Ask them to help you understand why.
- 21. D. Try not to Argue and Whine • It won’t get you anywhere • Be respectful • This will show them a sign of maturity and gain you respect
- 22. Bonus Tips
- 23. 1. Use the sandwich method 2. Avoid statements like “ You never” or “ You always” 3. Never run off in the middle of a conversation.
- 24. 4. Yelling doesn’t make people want to change their minds. 5. Never say, “ I don’t love you anymore” , or “ I hate you” 6. Try to always make eye contact when speaking.
- 25. What if Talking to your Parents Doesn’t Work?
- 26. Gracefully accepting a no can help you get more yeses in the future.
- 27. Ephesians 4:2-3 2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
- 28. If you can’t talk to your parent, seek out other adults you can trust.