This document discusses strategies for increasing audience engagement and monetizing that engagement. It frames engagement as cultivating a relationship with patrons that builds loyalty and revenue over time. It advocates treating first-time patrons well so they return for a "second date" and continue deepening their involvement. An example case study shows how the Seattle Repertory Theatre dramatically increased retention simply by offering patrons the chance to attend again in the same season. The document outlines a four-chapter "love story" process for moving patrons from first-time attendees to long-term donors and leaders through ongoing communication, upgrades, commitments like subscriptions, and anniversary recognition to create highly engaged and financially supportive "patron families."