The Art of Interaction

Rule One: A good time is still a good
 time, regardless of intimacy levels.
Flirting is key. Period.
• Women like to have fun, same as guys do.
• A good conversation is critical; key topics need to
  be addressed, interest MUST be shown, and it
  needs to be a give and take.
• A little alcohol can go a long way in loosening the
  bonds of social awkwardness; don’t get
  snockered. This is just embarrassing and will ruin
  any chance of making a real connection with her
  in a positive way.
• Don’t be overbearing. Focus your attention on
  getting to know her and having fun with her.
Flirting (cont.)
• Touch on key topics. Her hobbies are going to be your saving grace. 83% of
  all conversations between people not in relationships are in some way
  related to hobbies, whether it be work, school, entertainment, cars,
  pets…They all fall into this category. The key is finding out what it is that
  she is most willing to talk about.
• Don’t stay on one topic too long unless it is important. You may end up
  bored, or she will, and that just isn’t good. Keep it fresh, and learn as
  much as you can.
• Don’t ignore her friends, and this important for a few different reasons.
   – First off, if you aren’t good enough for her friends at the first
       encounter, you aren’t good enough for her.
   – Second, you can keep the conversation flowing with outsiders’ input,
       but don’t ignore her. Occasionally bring the focus back on her in a
       major way, and her girl-friends will pick up on the hint.
   – Last, it makes you sociable. You like to have fun and meet new people
       and girls love that kind of guy.
• HAVE FUN!!! If you are having fun, even if she isn’t, she will want to, and
  that is a good thing. That gets you more involved and the focus and lead is
  given to you to run with.
The “Friend-zone” is bullshit.
• Married couples around the world will tell you that their
  spouse is their best friend.
• It is easier to be comfortable and have fun around someone
  you trust, like a friend.
• If she doesn’t like you enough to be your friend, why would
  she want to be with you?
• Never give up. Men get “friend zoned” and they throw in
  the towel, which is ridiculous. Anything worth having is
  worth working for, gents.
• If you find yourself in the “friend zone” and can’t get out,
  guess what? That is your fault, candy ass, because you
  weren’t willing to make your intentions clear and follow
  through on them.
The cheat code that is the
                   Compliment.
• Tell a girl she looks good. Because she does, if she didn’t, would you be
  talking to her? Be honest, the answer is no.
• Be TRUTHFUL. The female BS detector is hair trigger sensitive, so if you
  embellish a little, make sure that there is a grain of truth in what you say.
• Don‘t be a douche bag. Saying things like, “you look fine” or “hey sexy”
  just make you sound like a prick. Words like gorgeous, beautiful, cute, and
  amazing are your friends, so keep them close.
• Keep It Simple Stupid. Long winded lines about how good a girl looks just
  make you sound arrogant and reveal how hard you are trying. Don’t make
  that mistake.
• A girl will always take great care and put effort into their appearance, no
  matter where they are going or what they are doing. Capitalize on this
  and make a few remarks about their hair, their dress… But don’t focus on
  it too much or you will be “Gay-zoned”
Dancing
• Girls LOVE to dance. Period. If you have even average
  dancing skills, you’ll earn points. Hips and footwork are
  critical when dancing to impress.
• Have fun. I cannot stress this enough. Even if you suck
  at dancing, if you don’t dance, girls will notice. So get
  out there and just move to the beat, it isn’t that hard.
• Now if you ARE an avid dancer, use your stuff. The
  dance, no matter what form, is an exchange of
  movement and passion, an act that can speak volumes.
  It prepares the endorphins to spring forth, gets your
  heart racing and sets your soul on fire. Perfect
  conditions for a memorable night.
Your attire.
• As important as this is, I don’t care if some guys will make
  remarks about my sexuality. A well dressed and groomed man
  is a mighty fine thing indeed, and the ladies know this.
• A collared shirt is key, whether it is buttoned up with a tie
  added, or the top few buttons are open, it has a sense of
  class. It also shows that you care about your image, and you
  care how people view you.
• Slacks are good, as are a nice pair of jeans that fit. Sweat
  pants, no. Shorts, no (unless you are at a beach or river party).
  Manpris are definitely out.
• The shoes, omg, the fucking shoes. These clunky, oversized
  skater shoes are an arrow to the knee, and I mean it. Stylish
  sneakers that fit are a much better choice if you can’t bring
  yourself to wear a decent pair of dress shoes.
Grooming.
• The hair. It is an issue, no matter what style you choose, it needs to look
  good and neat. The “Ijustgotoutofbed” look is bullshit, it gets in the way
  and makes you look like a loser who doesn’t give a shit.
• Honestly, I prefer a shorter cut, and I use a product that gives it shine and
  form without being crunchy. Most girls love nothing more than to run
  their hands thru the hair of the guy they snagged, so why make it difficult
  for them?
• Facial hair. Again, keep it neat. Scraggle and long awkward hairs in random
  places are never attractive. The razor is your friend, so use it. If you can’t
  make an area look uniform, be rid of it.
• Piercings…Some girls like the earing and lip ring thing, but I stress the
  “some”. Most girls don’t like a guy with a face full of metal, and it isn’t
  difficult to imagine why.
• Your smell. Let’s face it guys, we can get pretty gnarly. So brush your teeth,
  wash your face, scrub in all places in the shower, keep gum on hand and
  for god’s sake Use The DEODERANT!
Accessories
• Be honest guys, we’ve got ‘em. Rings, bracelets, necklaces, sunglasses,
  wallets, watch…They all play a part in our attire.
• Keep It Simple Stupid. Overuse of these can look gaudy and arrogant, we
  don’t want that. A nice silver band on the finger, a simple chain around the
  neck (if you must) and a sleek stylish wallet are boons for your
  appearance.
• Sunglasses. All guys have them. Some of us shouldn’t have the ones we
  do. Large, bulky shades are not necessary, nor are these stupid Kanye
  glasses. Get rid of them, and get a good pair that have dark colors and
  keep the sun out of your eyes. That’s what they are for, I personally have a
  few pairs of Aviators and some slim driving shades.
• The watch. It’s a sophisticated addition, if the right one is utilized. Mickey
  Mouse ain’t gonna cut it, nor is a massive, flashy one. A silver band with a
  simple watch face is good. DON’T FIDGET WITH IT! Girls WILL notice, and
  they will assume you are trying to attract attention to it.
Drinking
• This is another key subject. Alcohol can open doors for you, but if
  you screw it up, it will close those doors faster than you thought
  possible.
• Keep it light, overdrinking while trying to make a connection can
  and will be insulting to the lady. It also helps prevent spontaneous
  barfing, which is a plus no matter the situation.
• Don’t let her get too drunk, and before you all get incredulous and
  declare blasphemy, here is why. No one can predict how they will
  act while drunk, some black out, some get angry, some get stupid.
  You don’t want to wake up to her drowning in regret after having
  shagged you under the influence. Also, watching a girl hurl is not
  the most attractive sight.
• A little social lubricant is astoundingly effective. You can bond over
  drinks, you can fill an awkward silence with the offer of a refill, and
  it puts both of you at ease. What’s not to love?
Don’t forget…
These are just the basics. There is so much more
    that goes into having a good time with a
   woman, but these points and tips are your
 foundation. You have to start here before you
can get deeper into anything else. I wish you all
luck, and remember, a good time, even without
      getting any action is still a good time.

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Part1 the basics

  • 1. The Art of Interaction Rule One: A good time is still a good time, regardless of intimacy levels.
  • 2. Flirting is key. Period. • Women like to have fun, same as guys do. • A good conversation is critical; key topics need to be addressed, interest MUST be shown, and it needs to be a give and take. • A little alcohol can go a long way in loosening the bonds of social awkwardness; don’t get snockered. This is just embarrassing and will ruin any chance of making a real connection with her in a positive way. • Don’t be overbearing. Focus your attention on getting to know her and having fun with her.
  • 3. Flirting (cont.) • Touch on key topics. Her hobbies are going to be your saving grace. 83% of all conversations between people not in relationships are in some way related to hobbies, whether it be work, school, entertainment, cars, pets…They all fall into this category. The key is finding out what it is that she is most willing to talk about. • Don’t stay on one topic too long unless it is important. You may end up bored, or she will, and that just isn’t good. Keep it fresh, and learn as much as you can. • Don’t ignore her friends, and this important for a few different reasons. – First off, if you aren’t good enough for her friends at the first encounter, you aren’t good enough for her. – Second, you can keep the conversation flowing with outsiders’ input, but don’t ignore her. Occasionally bring the focus back on her in a major way, and her girl-friends will pick up on the hint. – Last, it makes you sociable. You like to have fun and meet new people and girls love that kind of guy. • HAVE FUN!!! If you are having fun, even if she isn’t, she will want to, and that is a good thing. That gets you more involved and the focus and lead is given to you to run with.
  • 4. The “Friend-zone” is bullshit. • Married couples around the world will tell you that their spouse is their best friend. • It is easier to be comfortable and have fun around someone you trust, like a friend. • If she doesn’t like you enough to be your friend, why would she want to be with you? • Never give up. Men get “friend zoned” and they throw in the towel, which is ridiculous. Anything worth having is worth working for, gents. • If you find yourself in the “friend zone” and can’t get out, guess what? That is your fault, candy ass, because you weren’t willing to make your intentions clear and follow through on them.
  • 5. The cheat code that is the Compliment. • Tell a girl she looks good. Because she does, if she didn’t, would you be talking to her? Be honest, the answer is no. • Be TRUTHFUL. The female BS detector is hair trigger sensitive, so if you embellish a little, make sure that there is a grain of truth in what you say. • Don‘t be a douche bag. Saying things like, “you look fine” or “hey sexy” just make you sound like a prick. Words like gorgeous, beautiful, cute, and amazing are your friends, so keep them close. • Keep It Simple Stupid. Long winded lines about how good a girl looks just make you sound arrogant and reveal how hard you are trying. Don’t make that mistake. • A girl will always take great care and put effort into their appearance, no matter where they are going or what they are doing. Capitalize on this and make a few remarks about their hair, their dress… But don’t focus on it too much or you will be “Gay-zoned”
  • 6. Dancing • Girls LOVE to dance. Period. If you have even average dancing skills, you’ll earn points. Hips and footwork are critical when dancing to impress. • Have fun. I cannot stress this enough. Even if you suck at dancing, if you don’t dance, girls will notice. So get out there and just move to the beat, it isn’t that hard. • Now if you ARE an avid dancer, use your stuff. The dance, no matter what form, is an exchange of movement and passion, an act that can speak volumes. It prepares the endorphins to spring forth, gets your heart racing and sets your soul on fire. Perfect conditions for a memorable night.
  • 7. Your attire. • As important as this is, I don’t care if some guys will make remarks about my sexuality. A well dressed and groomed man is a mighty fine thing indeed, and the ladies know this. • A collared shirt is key, whether it is buttoned up with a tie added, or the top few buttons are open, it has a sense of class. It also shows that you care about your image, and you care how people view you. • Slacks are good, as are a nice pair of jeans that fit. Sweat pants, no. Shorts, no (unless you are at a beach or river party). Manpris are definitely out. • The shoes, omg, the fucking shoes. These clunky, oversized skater shoes are an arrow to the knee, and I mean it. Stylish sneakers that fit are a much better choice if you can’t bring yourself to wear a decent pair of dress shoes.
  • 8. Grooming. • The hair. It is an issue, no matter what style you choose, it needs to look good and neat. The “Ijustgotoutofbed” look is bullshit, it gets in the way and makes you look like a loser who doesn’t give a shit. • Honestly, I prefer a shorter cut, and I use a product that gives it shine and form without being crunchy. Most girls love nothing more than to run their hands thru the hair of the guy they snagged, so why make it difficult for them? • Facial hair. Again, keep it neat. Scraggle and long awkward hairs in random places are never attractive. The razor is your friend, so use it. If you can’t make an area look uniform, be rid of it. • Piercings…Some girls like the earing and lip ring thing, but I stress the “some”. Most girls don’t like a guy with a face full of metal, and it isn’t difficult to imagine why. • Your smell. Let’s face it guys, we can get pretty gnarly. So brush your teeth, wash your face, scrub in all places in the shower, keep gum on hand and for god’s sake Use The DEODERANT!
  • 9. Accessories • Be honest guys, we’ve got ‘em. Rings, bracelets, necklaces, sunglasses, wallets, watch…They all play a part in our attire. • Keep It Simple Stupid. Overuse of these can look gaudy and arrogant, we don’t want that. A nice silver band on the finger, a simple chain around the neck (if you must) and a sleek stylish wallet are boons for your appearance. • Sunglasses. All guys have them. Some of us shouldn’t have the ones we do. Large, bulky shades are not necessary, nor are these stupid Kanye glasses. Get rid of them, and get a good pair that have dark colors and keep the sun out of your eyes. That’s what they are for, I personally have a few pairs of Aviators and some slim driving shades. • The watch. It’s a sophisticated addition, if the right one is utilized. Mickey Mouse ain’t gonna cut it, nor is a massive, flashy one. A silver band with a simple watch face is good. DON’T FIDGET WITH IT! Girls WILL notice, and they will assume you are trying to attract attention to it.
  • 10. Drinking • This is another key subject. Alcohol can open doors for you, but if you screw it up, it will close those doors faster than you thought possible. • Keep it light, overdrinking while trying to make a connection can and will be insulting to the lady. It also helps prevent spontaneous barfing, which is a plus no matter the situation. • Don’t let her get too drunk, and before you all get incredulous and declare blasphemy, here is why. No one can predict how they will act while drunk, some black out, some get angry, some get stupid. You don’t want to wake up to her drowning in regret after having shagged you under the influence. Also, watching a girl hurl is not the most attractive sight. • A little social lubricant is astoundingly effective. You can bond over drinks, you can fill an awkward silence with the offer of a refill, and it puts both of you at ease. What’s not to love?
  • 11. Don’t forget… These are just the basics. There is so much more that goes into having a good time with a woman, but these points and tips are your foundation. You have to start here before you can get deeper into anything else. I wish you all luck, and remember, a good time, even without getting any action is still a good time.