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What is Conflict?
Conflict is the emotional, verbal,
written or physical expression of
differences regarding wants, needs
or expectations between two or
more individuals.
Conflict directly impacts behavior,
decision-making and the ability to
complete assigned tasks.
Conflict is inevitable in the
Who is Responsible for
Resolving Conflicts?
 - The project manager has often
been described as a conflict
manager. In many organizations,
he or she continually fights fires
and crises evolving from conflicts
& delegates day-to-day
responsibility of running the
project to the project team
 To handle & prevent conflicts,
asking & answering these 4
questions are important:
 1. What are the project objectives and
are they in conflict with other
projects?
 2. Why do conflicts occur?
 3. How do we resolve conflicts?
 4. Is there any type of analysis that
could identify possible conflicts
before they occur?
1. Project Objectives
 Each project must have at least one
objective. The objectives of the project
must be made
 known to all project personnel & all
managers, at every level of the
organization. If this information is not
communicated accurately, then it is
entirely possible that upper-level
managers, project managers, &
functional managers may all have a
Project objectives must
be:
 - this is the more simplistic approach of
defining an objective by saying that the
project’s objective must follow the
SMART rule, wherein:
 S – specific
 M – measurable
 A – attainable
 R – realistic or relevant
 T – tangible or time-bound
MBO Approach
 Many projects are directed and
controlled using a management-
by-objective (MBO) approach.
MBO is a systems approach for
aligning project goals with
organizational
 goals, project goals with the goals
of other sub-units of the
organization, & project goals with
Furthermore, management by
objectives can be regarded as
a:
 Systems approach to planning and
obtaining project results for an
organization.
 Strategy of meeting individual
needs at the same time that project
needs are met
 Method of clarifying what each
individual and organizational unit’s
contribution to the project should
The Conflict Environment
 Conflicts can easily develop out of a
situation where members of a
group have a misunderstanding of
each other’s roles &
responsibilities. Conflicts and their
resolution can be planned for.
Resolution means collaboration in
which people must rely on one
another. Without this, mistrust will
prevail. Thus, project managers
The Most Common Types of
Conflicts Involve:
 Manpower resources
 Equipment and facilities
 Capital expenditures
 Costs
 Technical opinions and trade-offs
 Priorities
 Administrative procedures
 Scheduling
 Responsibilities
 Personality clashes
 However, project managers
believe that the most frequently
occurring conflicts are over
schedules but the potentially
damaging conflicts can occur over
personality clashes. Conflicts can
occur with anyone and over
anything. Some people contend
that personality conflicts are the
most difficult to resolve. Many
executives feel that the best way of
David Wilemon has identified
several reasons why conflicts still
occur:
1. The greater the diversity of
disciplinary expertise among the
participants of a project team, the
greater the potential for conflict to
develop among members of the team.
2. The lower the project manager’s
degree of authority, reward, and
punishment power over those
individuals and organizational units
supporting his project, the greater the
David Wilemon has identified
several reasons why conflicts
still occur:
3. The less the specific objectives of
a project (cost, schedule, and
technical performance) are
understood by the project team
members, the more likely it is that
conflict will develop.
 4. The greater the role of
ambiguity among the participants
of a project team, the more likely it is
that conflict will develop.
David Wilemon has identified
several reasons why conflicts
still occur:
 The more the members of functional
areas perceive that the
implementation of a project
management system will adversely
usurp their traditional roles, the
greater the potential for conflict.
 ● The lower the percent need for
interdependence among
organizational units supporting a
project, the greater the potential for
The 4 Most Common Methods
 1. The development of
company-wide conflict
resolution policies and
procedures
 2. The establishment of project
conflict resolution procedures
during the early planning
activities
 3. The use of hierarchical
 A second method for resolving
conflicts, and one that is often very
effective, is to
 “plan” for conflicts during the
planning activities. This can be
accomplished through the use of
linear responsibility charts.
Planning for conflict resolution is
similar to the first method
 except that each project manager
can develop his own policies, rules,
HIERARCHIAL REFERRAL
 Hierarchial referral for conflict
resolution, in theory, appears as the
best method because neither the
project manager nor the functional
manager will dominate. Under
this arrangement, the project and
functional managers agree that for a
proper balance to exist their common
superior must resolve the conflict to
protect the company’s best interest.
 The last method is direct contact
in which conflicting parties meet
face-to-face and resolve their
disagreement. Unfortunately, this
method does not always work and,
if continually stressed, can result in
conditions where individuals will
either suppress the identification of
problems or develop new ones
during confrontation.
PCM Report Conflicts.pptx Project Cycle Management
The Management of
Conflicts
 Once a conflict occurs, the project
manager must:
 ● Study the problem and collect
all available information.
 ● Develop a situational
approach or methodology.
 ● Set the appropriate
atmosphere or climate.
The Logical Steps and Sequence of
Events needed in a Confrontation
Meeting:
 1. Setting the climate:
establishing a willingness to
participate
 2. Analyzing the images: how do
you see yourself and others, and
how do they see you?
 3. Collecting information: getting
feelings out in the open
 4. Defining the problem: defining
The Logical Steps and Sequence of
Events needed in a Confrontation
Meeting:
 5. Sharing the information: making the
information available to all
 6. Setting the appropriate priorities:
developing working sessions for setting
priorities and timetables
 7. Organizing the group: forming cross-
functional problem-solving groups
 8. Problem-solving: obtaining cross-functional
involvement, securing commitments, and
setting the priorities and timetable.
The Logical Steps and Sequence of
Events needed in a Confrontation
Meeting:
 9. Developing the action plan:
getting commitment
 10. Implementing the work:
taking action on the plan
 11. Following up: obtaining
feedback on the
implementation for the action
plan
The Project Manager Should also
Understand Conflict Minimization
Procedures.
 Pausing and thinking before
reacting
 Building trust
 Trying to understand the conflict
motives
 Keeping the meeting under
control
 Listening to all involved parties
The Effective Manager, in Conflict
Problem-solving Situations
 Knows the organization
 Listens with understanding rather than
evaluation
 Clarifies the nature of the conflict
 Understands the feelings of others
 Suggests the procedures for resolving
differences
 Maintains relationships with disputing
parties
 Facilitates the communications process
 Confronting or Collaborating
 Compromising
 Smoothing or
Accommodating
 Competing or
Forcing
 Avoiding or
Withdrawing
Conflict Resolution Modes or
Methods of Dealing With Conflict
26
 - the conflicting parties meet face-to-face and
try to work through their disagreements.
This approach should focus more on solving
the problem and less on being combative.
This approach is collaboration and
integration where both parties need to win.
 Assertive
 Cooperative
 Finding an agreeable solution
for both parties
 Fully satisfy both concerns.
ConfrontingorCollaborating:
27
 When you and the conflicting party can both get at
least what you wanted and maybe more
 To reduce cost
 To create a common power base
 To attack a common foe
 When skills are complementary
 When there is enough time
 When there is trust
 When you have confidence in other person’s ability
 When the ultimate objective is to learn
Confronting/Collaborating should be used:
28
 To compromise is to bargain or to search
for solutions so both parties leave with
some degree of satisfaction. Compromising
is often the result of confrontation. Some
people argue that compromise is a “give
and take” approach, which leads to a “win-
win” position. Others argue that
compromise is a “lose-lose” position, since
neither party gets
 everything he/she wants or needs.
Compromising:
29
 When both parties need to be winners
 When you can’t win
 When others are as strong as you are
 When you haven’t time to win
 To maintain your relationship with your
opponent
 When you are not sure you are right
 When you get nothing if you don’t
 When stakes are moderate
 ● To avoid giving the impression of
“fighting”
Compromise should be used:
30
 This approach is an attempt to reduce the
emotions that exist in a conflict. This is
accomplished by emphasizing areas of
agreement and de-emphasizing areas of
disagreement. It tries to convince both
parties to remain at the bargaining table
because a solution is possible.
 In smoothing, one may sacrifice
one’s own goals in order to satisfy
the needs of the other party.
Smoothing or Accommodating:
31
 To reach an overarching goal
 To create obligation for a trade-off at a later
date
 When the stakes are low
 When liability is limited
 To maintain harmony
 When any solution will be adequate
 To create goodwill (be magnanimous)
 When you’ll lose anyway
 To gain time
Smoothing/Accommodating should
be used:
32
 An example of smoothing would be to tell
someone, “We have agreed on three of
the five points and there is no reason
why we cannot agree on the last two
points.”
 It is Unassertive (submissive) and
Cooperative
 Yielding to another’s point-of-view
 Self-sacrificing & Obeying without
agreeing.
Example of
Smoothing/Accommodating
33
Competing or Forcing:
34
 Forcing happens when one party tries to
impose the solution on the other party.
Conflict resolution works best when resolution
is achieved at the lowest possible level. The
higher up the conflict goes, the greater the
tendency for the conflict to be forced, with the
result of being in a “win-lose” situation in
which one party wins at the expense of the
other.
 Being Assertive
 Being Uncooperative
 When you are right
 When a do-or-die situation exists
 When stakes are high
 When important principles are at stake
 When you are stronger (never start a
battle you can’t win)
 To gain status or to gain power
 In short-term, one-shot deals
 When the relationship is unimportant
 When it’s understood that a game is being
played
Competing or Forcing Should be used when:
35
 Avoidance is often regarded as a temporary
solution to a problem. The
 problem and the resulting conflict
 can come up again and again.
 Some people view avoiding as
 cowardice and an unwillingness to
 be responsive to a situation.
 This is Unassertive & Uncooperative
 Sidestepping the issue
 Not addressing the conflict
AvoidingorWithdrawing:
36
 When you can’t win
 When the stakes are low
 When the stakes are high, but you are not
ready yet
 To gain time
 To unnerve your opponent
 To preserve neutrality or reputation
 When you think the problem will go away
 When you win by delay
Avoiding or Withdrawing Should be used when:
37
Different Styles have
Different Goals
 Confronting: the goal is multiple
participation
 Compromising: the goal is to find a middle
ground.
 Smoothing/Accommodating: the goal is
to yield.
 Competing/Forcing: the goal is to win.
 Avoiding/Withdrawing: the goal
 is to delay.
PCM Report Conflicts.pptx Project Cycle Management
What’s Your Style?
 Addressing conflict is a mission-
critical component of increasing
organizational effectiveness and
productivity.
 Be encouraged to resolve conflict
at an early stage, at the lowest
possible level.
 Keys to conflict resolution are
training and practice of improved
communication and leadership
Conclusion:
41
God bless everyone! 
Proverbs 15:1:
"A gentle answer
turns away wrath,
but a harsh word
stirs up anger"

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PCM Report Conflicts.pptx Project Cycle Management

  • 2. What is Conflict? Conflict is the emotional, verbal, written or physical expression of differences regarding wants, needs or expectations between two or more individuals. Conflict directly impacts behavior, decision-making and the ability to complete assigned tasks. Conflict is inevitable in the
  • 3. Who is Responsible for Resolving Conflicts?  - The project manager has often been described as a conflict manager. In many organizations, he or she continually fights fires and crises evolving from conflicts & delegates day-to-day responsibility of running the project to the project team
  • 4.  To handle & prevent conflicts, asking & answering these 4 questions are important:  1. What are the project objectives and are they in conflict with other projects?  2. Why do conflicts occur?  3. How do we resolve conflicts?  4. Is there any type of analysis that could identify possible conflicts before they occur?
  • 5. 1. Project Objectives  Each project must have at least one objective. The objectives of the project must be made  known to all project personnel & all managers, at every level of the organization. If this information is not communicated accurately, then it is entirely possible that upper-level managers, project managers, & functional managers may all have a
  • 6. Project objectives must be:  - this is the more simplistic approach of defining an objective by saying that the project’s objective must follow the SMART rule, wherein:  S – specific  M – measurable  A – attainable  R – realistic or relevant  T – tangible or time-bound
  • 7. MBO Approach  Many projects are directed and controlled using a management- by-objective (MBO) approach. MBO is a systems approach for aligning project goals with organizational  goals, project goals with the goals of other sub-units of the organization, & project goals with
  • 8. Furthermore, management by objectives can be regarded as a:  Systems approach to planning and obtaining project results for an organization.  Strategy of meeting individual needs at the same time that project needs are met  Method of clarifying what each individual and organizational unit’s contribution to the project should
  • 9. The Conflict Environment  Conflicts can easily develop out of a situation where members of a group have a misunderstanding of each other’s roles & responsibilities. Conflicts and their resolution can be planned for. Resolution means collaboration in which people must rely on one another. Without this, mistrust will prevail. Thus, project managers
  • 10. The Most Common Types of Conflicts Involve:  Manpower resources  Equipment and facilities  Capital expenditures  Costs  Technical opinions and trade-offs  Priorities  Administrative procedures  Scheduling  Responsibilities  Personality clashes
  • 11.  However, project managers believe that the most frequently occurring conflicts are over schedules but the potentially damaging conflicts can occur over personality clashes. Conflicts can occur with anyone and over anything. Some people contend that personality conflicts are the most difficult to resolve. Many executives feel that the best way of
  • 12. David Wilemon has identified several reasons why conflicts still occur: 1. The greater the diversity of disciplinary expertise among the participants of a project team, the greater the potential for conflict to develop among members of the team. 2. The lower the project manager’s degree of authority, reward, and punishment power over those individuals and organizational units supporting his project, the greater the
  • 13. David Wilemon has identified several reasons why conflicts still occur: 3. The less the specific objectives of a project (cost, schedule, and technical performance) are understood by the project team members, the more likely it is that conflict will develop.  4. The greater the role of ambiguity among the participants of a project team, the more likely it is that conflict will develop.
  • 14. David Wilemon has identified several reasons why conflicts still occur:  The more the members of functional areas perceive that the implementation of a project management system will adversely usurp their traditional roles, the greater the potential for conflict.  ● The lower the percent need for interdependence among organizational units supporting a project, the greater the potential for
  • 15. The 4 Most Common Methods  1. The development of company-wide conflict resolution policies and procedures  2. The establishment of project conflict resolution procedures during the early planning activities  3. The use of hierarchical
  • 16.  A second method for resolving conflicts, and one that is often very effective, is to  “plan” for conflicts during the planning activities. This can be accomplished through the use of linear responsibility charts. Planning for conflict resolution is similar to the first method  except that each project manager can develop his own policies, rules,
  • 17. HIERARCHIAL REFERRAL  Hierarchial referral for conflict resolution, in theory, appears as the best method because neither the project manager nor the functional manager will dominate. Under this arrangement, the project and functional managers agree that for a proper balance to exist their common superior must resolve the conflict to protect the company’s best interest.
  • 18.  The last method is direct contact in which conflicting parties meet face-to-face and resolve their disagreement. Unfortunately, this method does not always work and, if continually stressed, can result in conditions where individuals will either suppress the identification of problems or develop new ones during confrontation.
  • 20. The Management of Conflicts  Once a conflict occurs, the project manager must:  ● Study the problem and collect all available information.  ● Develop a situational approach or methodology.  ● Set the appropriate atmosphere or climate.
  • 21. The Logical Steps and Sequence of Events needed in a Confrontation Meeting:  1. Setting the climate: establishing a willingness to participate  2. Analyzing the images: how do you see yourself and others, and how do they see you?  3. Collecting information: getting feelings out in the open  4. Defining the problem: defining
  • 22. The Logical Steps and Sequence of Events needed in a Confrontation Meeting:  5. Sharing the information: making the information available to all  6. Setting the appropriate priorities: developing working sessions for setting priorities and timetables  7. Organizing the group: forming cross- functional problem-solving groups  8. Problem-solving: obtaining cross-functional involvement, securing commitments, and setting the priorities and timetable.
  • 23. The Logical Steps and Sequence of Events needed in a Confrontation Meeting:  9. Developing the action plan: getting commitment  10. Implementing the work: taking action on the plan  11. Following up: obtaining feedback on the implementation for the action plan
  • 24. The Project Manager Should also Understand Conflict Minimization Procedures.  Pausing and thinking before reacting  Building trust  Trying to understand the conflict motives  Keeping the meeting under control  Listening to all involved parties
  • 25. The Effective Manager, in Conflict Problem-solving Situations  Knows the organization  Listens with understanding rather than evaluation  Clarifies the nature of the conflict  Understands the feelings of others  Suggests the procedures for resolving differences  Maintains relationships with disputing parties  Facilitates the communications process
  • 26.  Confronting or Collaborating  Compromising  Smoothing or Accommodating  Competing or Forcing  Avoiding or Withdrawing Conflict Resolution Modes or Methods of Dealing With Conflict 26
  • 27.  - the conflicting parties meet face-to-face and try to work through their disagreements. This approach should focus more on solving the problem and less on being combative. This approach is collaboration and integration where both parties need to win.  Assertive  Cooperative  Finding an agreeable solution for both parties  Fully satisfy both concerns. ConfrontingorCollaborating: 27
  • 28.  When you and the conflicting party can both get at least what you wanted and maybe more  To reduce cost  To create a common power base  To attack a common foe  When skills are complementary  When there is enough time  When there is trust  When you have confidence in other person’s ability  When the ultimate objective is to learn Confronting/Collaborating should be used: 28
  • 29.  To compromise is to bargain or to search for solutions so both parties leave with some degree of satisfaction. Compromising is often the result of confrontation. Some people argue that compromise is a “give and take” approach, which leads to a “win- win” position. Others argue that compromise is a “lose-lose” position, since neither party gets  everything he/she wants or needs. Compromising: 29
  • 30.  When both parties need to be winners  When you can’t win  When others are as strong as you are  When you haven’t time to win  To maintain your relationship with your opponent  When you are not sure you are right  When you get nothing if you don’t  When stakes are moderate  ● To avoid giving the impression of “fighting” Compromise should be used: 30
  • 31.  This approach is an attempt to reduce the emotions that exist in a conflict. This is accomplished by emphasizing areas of agreement and de-emphasizing areas of disagreement. It tries to convince both parties to remain at the bargaining table because a solution is possible.  In smoothing, one may sacrifice one’s own goals in order to satisfy the needs of the other party. Smoothing or Accommodating: 31
  • 32.  To reach an overarching goal  To create obligation for a trade-off at a later date  When the stakes are low  When liability is limited  To maintain harmony  When any solution will be adequate  To create goodwill (be magnanimous)  When you’ll lose anyway  To gain time Smoothing/Accommodating should be used: 32
  • 33.  An example of smoothing would be to tell someone, “We have agreed on three of the five points and there is no reason why we cannot agree on the last two points.”  It is Unassertive (submissive) and Cooperative  Yielding to another’s point-of-view  Self-sacrificing & Obeying without agreeing. Example of Smoothing/Accommodating 33
  • 34. Competing or Forcing: 34  Forcing happens when one party tries to impose the solution on the other party. Conflict resolution works best when resolution is achieved at the lowest possible level. The higher up the conflict goes, the greater the tendency for the conflict to be forced, with the result of being in a “win-lose” situation in which one party wins at the expense of the other.  Being Assertive  Being Uncooperative
  • 35.  When you are right  When a do-or-die situation exists  When stakes are high  When important principles are at stake  When you are stronger (never start a battle you can’t win)  To gain status or to gain power  In short-term, one-shot deals  When the relationship is unimportant  When it’s understood that a game is being played Competing or Forcing Should be used when: 35
  • 36.  Avoidance is often regarded as a temporary solution to a problem. The  problem and the resulting conflict  can come up again and again.  Some people view avoiding as  cowardice and an unwillingness to  be responsive to a situation.  This is Unassertive & Uncooperative  Sidestepping the issue  Not addressing the conflict AvoidingorWithdrawing: 36
  • 37.  When you can’t win  When the stakes are low  When the stakes are high, but you are not ready yet  To gain time  To unnerve your opponent  To preserve neutrality or reputation  When you think the problem will go away  When you win by delay Avoiding or Withdrawing Should be used when: 37
  • 38. Different Styles have Different Goals  Confronting: the goal is multiple participation  Compromising: the goal is to find a middle ground.  Smoothing/Accommodating: the goal is to yield.  Competing/Forcing: the goal is to win.  Avoiding/Withdrawing: the goal  is to delay.
  • 41.  Addressing conflict is a mission- critical component of increasing organizational effectiveness and productivity.  Be encouraged to resolve conflict at an early stage, at the lowest possible level.  Keys to conflict resolution are training and practice of improved communication and leadership Conclusion: 41
  • 42. God bless everyone!  Proverbs 15:1: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"

Editor's Notes

  • #26: People have different ways of handling conflict. When people are living together, conflict is sure to arise. It is important to know how you handle stressful situations, but it is also important to know how the people you live with react to conflict. For example, you may be ready to talk about the situation and bring resolution to it immediately; whereas, your roommate may need 30 minutes to get his/her thoughts together. We’ll take the rest of this training to learn five of the main styles of conflict management. K. W., & Kilmann, R. H. (2011). Five conflict management styles at a glance. Retrieved from http://sourcesofinsight.com/conflict-management-styles-at-a-glance/ and http://peacebuilding.caritas.org/index.php/Conflict_Handling_Styles
  • #27: People who collaborate work together make plan to improve a situation or achieve goals of both parties. They attempt to work with others to find solutions that fully satisfy the concerns of both parties. This can be effective for complex scenarios where a novel solution is needed. This can also mean re-framing a challenge to create a more room for everybody’s ideas. The downside is that it requires a high-degree of trust, and reaching a consensus can require a lot of time and effort. It takes work to get everybody on board and to synthesize a variety of potentially conflicting ideas. People using this style often recognize there are tensions in relationships and contrasting viewpoints, but want to work through conflicts.
  • #29: People who collaborate work together make plan to improve a situation or achieve goals of both parties. They attempt to work with others to find solutions that fully satisfy the concerns of both parties. This can be effective for complex scenarios where a novel solution is needed. This can also mean re-framing a challenge to create a more room for everybody’s ideas. The downside is that it requires a high-degree of trust, and reaching a consensus can require a lot of time and effort. It takes work to get everybody on board and to synthesize a variety of potentially conflicting ideas. People using this style often recognize there are tensions in relationships and contrasting viewpoints, but want to work through conflicts.
  • #31: People who use accommodating often neglect their own concerns to satisfy the concerns of others. Accommodating is the opposite style of competing. People who accommodate may be selflessly generous or charitable, and they may also obey another person when they would prefer not to, or yield to another’s point of view. They may work against their own goals or objectives to reach a desired outcome. They may have to give in to reach the desired outcome. Accommodating may preserve future relationships with the conflicting person or party.
  • #34: To compete, people take a power orientation and use whatever power seems appropriate to win even at the expense of the other party. This may include arguing, pulling rank or instigating sanctions. Competing may mean standing up and defending a position believed to be correct, or simply trying to win. Forcing is another way of viewing competition. People using a forcing style perceive that some people are right and others are wrong. This approach may be appropriate for emergencies when time is of the essence, or when you need quick, decisive action. People should be aware of and support the approach. This is not a good conflict management style for handling normal conflict situations due to the fact that it demands only one person to be completely right and the other completely wrong. This is rarely actually the case. Most of the time both parties need to be open to changing part of their behavior.
  • #36: When someone uses avoidance, they are not helping the other party reach their goals, and they are not assertively pursuing their own. To do so, they may diplomatically sidestep or postpone discussion until a better time, withdraw from the threatening situation or divert attention. They perceive conflict as hopeless and therefore something to be avoided. Differences are overlooked and they accept disagreement. This works when the issue is trivial or when you have no chance of winning. It’s also very effective when the atmosphere is emotionally charged and you need to create some “space”. Sometimes issues will resolve themselves, but in general, avoiding is not a good long term strategy. “Hope is not a strategy.”