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The Family
As the School of Love
© 2002 International Educational Foundation
IEF is responsible for the content of this presentation only
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© IEF 1
Cornerstone of
Civilization
“The family is the culturecreating institution par
excellence.”
Brigitte Berger

© IEF 2
“Again and again…humans have
reaffirmed their dependence on
the family as the basic unit of
human living.”
Margaret Meade, Family, 1965

© IEF 3
The School of
Love
 Nurture heart
& character
 Primary
training
ground for
relationships

© IEF 4
Natural Order in the
Family
Vertical
Order

Grandparents

Individual
Order

Parents
Brother Sister Brother

Sister

Horizontal
Order

Children
© IEF 5
Natural Order in the
Universe

© IEF 6
Natural Order in the
Universe
Vertical
Order

Center of
Galaxy

Individual
Order

Sun
Mercury Venus

Earth

Mars

Jupiter

Horizontal
Order

© IEF 7
Positions in the Family
Grandparen
ts &
Parents

Tru
e
Husban
Lov
d
Elder e

Younge
r
Sibling
Wife

Siblin
g
Children &
Grandchildre

© IEF 8
The Four Spheres of
Love
 Child’s
Sphere
 Sibling’s
Sphere
 Spouse’s
Sphere
 Parent’s
Sphere

© IEF 9
Sphere of Child’s Love

© IEF 10
Child’s Love Grows in
Response to Parents Love

© IEF 11
Primary Virtues of
Child’s Love

Respect &

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Sphere of Sibling’s
Love
 Peers
 Friend
s
 Cousin
s
© IEF 13
Parental Influence
Harmonizes Sibling’s Love

© IEF 14
Diverse Relationships
Round Out the Personality

© IEF 15
Peers Increase in
Importance

© IEF 16
Primary Virtues of
Sibling’s Love

Harmony & Purity
© IEF 17
Sphere of Spouse’s
Love

© IEF 18
Spouse’s Sphere
Draws on Other
Spheres
Husband
Friend
Father
Son
Elder
brother
 Younger
brother






Wife
Friend
Mother
Daughter
Elder
sister
 Younger
sister






© IEF 19
Primary Virtues of
Spouse’s Love

Fidelity &

© IEF 20
Sphere of Parent’s
Love

© IEF 21
Primary Virtues of
Parent’s Love

Investment &

© IEF 22
Character Development
through Four Spheres of
Love
Parent

Higher spheres —
Spouse
Sibling
Child

 Founded on lower
spheres
 More unselfish &
responsible
 Require effort
© IEF 23
Society — Extension of
Leaders
Family
Younger
Peers

Parents

True
Love

Husband

Elder
Peers

Younger
Sibling
Wife

Elder
Sibling
Children
Subordinates

© IEF 24
The Three Subject Roles

True Parent

True
Teacher

True
Leader

© IEF 25
Family —
Embedded in the Social
Order
Vertical
Order

Society
Parents
Child
© IEF 26
Strong Families Have
Focus Higher than
Self
 Altruistic
purpose
 Service
to
communit
y
© IEF 27
Working for the Greater
Good
Peacemaking
Patriotism
Good Citizenship
Filial Piety
© IEF 28
Cornerstone of World
Peace
 Families
bridge
cultures
 Peaceful
families
support
peaceful
nations
 Basis for
empathy

© IEF 29
“Righteousness in the
heart… beauty in the
character… Harmony in the
home…
order in the nation…
peace in the world.”
The Great Learning

© IEF 30

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TIMD Philosophy 5

Editor's Notes

  • #2: The Need for Moral & Ethical Education
  • #3: Government Spending & Social Problems (U.S. from 1960Ð1990) 500% increase in spending on social problems ¥Violent crime rose 500% ¥Births outside marriage rose 400% ¥Divorce rose 400% ¥Children living in single parent homes rose 300% ¥Teenage suicides rose 200% Source:William Bennett, speech ÒSearch for A New World CultureÓ to conference, Washington, D.C., Apr 23, 1997
  • #6: Traditional Role of Education 1.Passing on knowledge and cultural values 2.Teaching moral standards and social responsibilities 3.Preparing good citizens
  • #7: U.S. Education Ð Founded with Moral Purposes Morality and knowledge considered essential to a good society 1.Schools actively promoted good character and citizenship 2.Earliest universities Ð Established by religious organizations ¥Harvard ¥Yale ¥Georgetown
  • #8: 1960s Ð Breakdown of Traditional Values 1.Decline of adult moral authority 2.Rise of selfish individualism and moral relativism
  • #9: Explosion of Destructive Youth Behavior Since 1940s 1940s School Problems 1.Talking out of turn 2.Chewing gum 3.Making noise 4.Running indoors 5.Getting out of line 6.Improper clothing 7.Littering 1990s School Problems 1.Drug abuse 2.Alcohol abuse 3.Pregnancy 4.Suicide 5.Rape 6.Robbery 7.Assault Source:William J. Bennett et al., Index of Leading Cultural indicators, Empower America, Mar. 1993
  • #10: Characteristics of ÒNon-DirectiveÓ Education 4.Rejects the authority of traditional moral teaching 5. Undermines the parentsÕ role in education
  • #11: Early Appeal of Non-Directive Education 1.Used interactive methodology 2.Supported by the science of its time 3.Coincided with the loss of confidence in traditional values 4.Seemed to promote tolerance
  • #12: Interactive Methodology 1.Participatory, not didactic 2.Engages students as agents in their own learning 3.Draws out studentsÕ knowledge & experience
  • #13: U.S. Policy Recognizes Limitations of Non-Directive Methods Rejects Òopen-ended decision-making, values clarification and therapeuticÉ strategiesÓ in drug abuse education Source:U.S. Dept. of Education guidelines for drug prevention education, 1988 Mandates federal funding for directive abstinence-oriented sex education Source:Act of Congress, 1996
  • #14: Why Moral & Ethical Education Was Neglected 1.Rise of moral relativism ¥All values subjective 2.Increasing pluralism ¥Unclear whose values should be taught 3.Confusion that teaching values was promoting religion
  • #15: Part 2. Why Give Priority to Moral & Ethical Education?
  • #17: Moral & Ethical Education Recognizes Universal Values
  • #18: ÒThe greater our material power, the greater our need for the spiritual insight and virtue to use our power for good and not evilÉWe have never been adequate spiritually for handling our material power; and today the morality gap isÉgreater than it has ever been in any previous age.Ó Source:Arnold Toynbee British Historian, ÔCivilization on Trial
  • #19: Two Dimensions of Values
  • #20: ÒCharacter is destiny.Ó Heraclitus, Greek philosopher
  • #21: Part 3. What Is a Balanced Education?
  • #22: Philosophy & Science of Education Philosophy of Education Purpose Ideals Goals Science of Education Curriculum Methods Administration
  • #23: Good Character Inner disposition conducive to right conduct ¥Attitudes and habits ¥For the purpose of loving
  • #24: Cultivation of Heart 1.Cultivation of moral feeling ¥Empathy ¥Loving motivation ¥Love of goodness 2.Learning through experiences of love ¥Gaining the capacity to love through family life 3.Training in good character ¥Develop self-control ¥Strengthen the conscience 4.Internalizing moral standards 5.Valuing people and respecting things
  • #27: First Goal of Education
  • #28: Education in Ethical Standards 1.Understanding the standards for good relationships 2.Fulfilling family roles & responsibilities 3.Training in behavior, attitudes and manners ¥Creating harmony
  • #30: Throughout history...education has had two great goals: To help young people to become smart and...become good.Ó Source:Dr. Thomas Lickona, ÔEducating for Character
  • #31: Morals Goal — Loving Relationships & Family Strong marriages Effective parenting Ethical practice living for higher purpose