Break bad habits and bring in good ones – with Steve Scott (part 1)
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The speaker reflects on the positive impact of building a lifestyle business that allows for flexibility and income generation without a traditional 9-5 job. They discuss the concept of habits, emphasizing that consistent actions can be performed without reliance on motivation, and touch on the psychological aspect of willpower and its depletion. The discussion includes strategies for maintaining discipline and the pitfalls of 'going cold turkey' in changing bad habits.
Break bad habits and bring in good ones – with Steve Scott (part 1)
- 2. “I would say at the very core just the idea that I've been able to take ideas out of my head and build a business around that, and I guess the kind of buzz work is the lifestyle business, the idea that I don't necessarily have to work a 9-5 job.
- 3. I can actually think of something, put it into an actual system, and actually generate income from it where I can live any part of the world. I think there's a lot of things I'm pretty happy with my life, but that's the one that I feel has really kind of determined the last 10 years and everything I've been able to achieve. So I'm pretty happy about that one.”
- 4. “I would say, a habit could be something you do on a regular basis, on almost a subconscious level. So I think a lot of people would define a habit as something you do every single day, whereas I would define it as something you consistently do without really thinking. So, a few examples, obviously brushing your teeth would be a daily habit, whereas I would consider exercise a habit as well, even if you don't necessarily do it every single day.”
- 5. “So, for me, I would consider running a major habit I built in my life, but I only run four times a week, but I know that almost on an instinctual level I just make time for running without even thinking about it. When it's time for running I'm able to do it without having to really feel the need to have motivation or any other sort of inspiration.
- 6. I just know that when it's time to run, or when it's time to write, when it's time to do a certain habit, I just go out and do it. I kinda mentioned the word motivation before, and I think a lot of times people, I guess that kinda New Year's resolution idea that people think you need a lot of motivation to do certain activities, but when you turn it into a habit, you don't really have to rely on motivation, because you kinda built that muscle memory up doing it on a consistent basis.”
- 7. “There's, I've actually done a lot of reading on willpower and bad habits, and I guess a great book, and I always butcher his name, but there's a book literally called just Willpower. It's written by Baumeister and Tierney. I guess for people listening, Rachel, if you want I'll just send you a link to the book, but they did a great book about willpower, and they just explained the idea of ego depletion. That pretty much everything you do on a daily basis, every decision you make, every time you decide that I need to go running, when you're at your work, you're always exerting willpower, because you have to make a number of microdecisions, and you're constantly doing so.”
- 8. “And just all this stuff in a given day all draws from the same reservoir of willpower. So you find at the end of the day you're tired. That's why a lot of people tend to argue at the end of the day with their spouse. They come home from a long day.
- 9. Someone says the off comment, next thing they know they're in a fight they didn't even want to get into. Just the idea there that you're constantly withdrawing from this pool of willpower, and it's just hard to continuously exert it over a 12, 14, 16 hour, however long you're awake, all that period of the day.
- 10. . So the idea of once you understand how ego depletion works, it's almost really intelligent to really do your high energy or high level stuff, the stuff that really is the most important for your business or your life, and do those first things in the morning.”
- 11. “I would say so. This is just my opinion. I say so, and I have literally no scientific study to back it up, nothing to really show that, but I find that for me just the most structure you put into your daily life, it's almost like once you get used to, I don't want to use the word habit, because we're going to say it over and over.
- 12. Once you get into the routine of it, being fairly disciplined, it's easier to be a little more disciplined in other areas of life. I just, I think discipline begets discipline. Kind of the early example for me, where I learned how to be disciplined, was with running, and every other area of my life was kind of a nightmare, but I kinda took that, well what makes me a successful runner? How can I apply that to other areas of my life?”
- 13. Kind of the early example for me, where I learned how to be disciplined, was with running, and every other area of my life was kind of a nightmare, but I kinda took that, well what makes me a successful runner? How can I apply that to other areas of my life?”
- 15. “I guess I used that analogy before, but with exercise I don't really ever feel like I need to really be disciplined about that, because I know if I can't go running, like it was really snowy today, so I was disciplined enough that knowing that it was going to be no way to run outside, so I went to the gym and ran there.
- 16. I walked around for a couple miles, and so it's just something like I know it'll happen. I just don't know when. It just matters depending on what time of day, but the idea of just kicking myself in the butt I've kinda, I've fortunately been able to get past that point in my life. I just know it'll happen. Just don't know when.”
- 17. “I'm sure there's been plenty of, studies have shown that just going cold turkey is more effective. I just, I know from dealing with people on just a day to day basis that, just even if you go on Facebook you see these people after New Year's.
- 18. I'm going to do all this. I'm never going to eat sweets again, and the problem with cold turkey is they have no, there's no wiggle room. They either one day have all or nothing. They really have no backup plan for when they fail, and people always invariably fail.”
- 19. “If you say to yourself you're never going to smoke a cigarette again, when you decide one day it's just it's been a crap day. You're really stressed out. You've been good all week, but suddenly you just need a cigarette. You have no backup plan for when that happens, and as soon as you smoke that cigarette or two there's something that happens called the what the hell effect, and I've wrote a little bit about that.
- 20. Again, that's the, I got that from the willpower book, but really what the what the hell effect is is generally that's when you do one thing you're like, well, I already broke my commitment, so screw it. I'm just gonna, you know, I'm going to smoke a bunch of cigarettes, because I've already failed with this. So I might as well just enjoy my cigarette time now.”
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