How to Break Up Well
- 1. How to Break Up Well
- 2. Justin Young
- 3. Chinese Community Church of Indianapolis
- 4. Pastor of English (↓) and Youth (↑) Ministries
- 6. Micah age 4
- 7. Elia age 2
- 8. Why ? does breaking up hurt so much
- 9. How to Break Up Well
- 10. Don’t
- 12. Stay single. Don’t Marry your first.
- 14. Attractive
- 15. Attractive Godly
- 16. Attractive Ready Godly for marriage and more
- 17. Attractive Ready Godly for marriage and more
- 18. Decide
- 19. Diverging paths Decide
- 20. Diverging paths Habitual relationship Decide
- 21. Diverging paths Habitual relationship Constant Decide combat
- 22. Diverging paths Habitual relationship Constant Decide combat Sexual promiscuity
- 23. Diverging paths Habitual relationship Constant Decide combat Sexual promiscuity Unfaithful actions
- 24. Diverging paths Habitual relationship Constant Decide combat Sexual promiscuity Unfaithful actions Parental objections
- 25. Do
- 26. Heartbreaker
- 27. Talk with God. Heartbreaker
- 28. Talk with God. Clarify the bad and good. Heartbreaker
- 29. Talk with God. Clarify the bad and good. Heartbreaker Plan the time and place.
- 30. Talk with God. Clarify the bad and good. Heartbreaker Plan the time and place. Communicate with honesty and humility.
- 31. Talk with God. Clarify the bad and good. Heartbreaker Plan the time and place. Communicate with honesty and humility. Listen but be clear and firm.
- 32. Heartbroken
- 33. Let go with persistence & patience. Heartbroken
- 34. (x1y1)s+1+ (x2y2)s+1 x = # of exes y = total years with exes s = sexual relationships higher total = more drama
- 35. Let go with persistence & patience. Address your emotions. Heartbroken
- 36. 4Qs
- 37. What are you angry about? 4Qs
- 38. What are you angry about? Who/what are you missing? 4Qs
- 39. What are you angry about? Who/what are you missing? 4Qs What are you learning?
- 40. What are you angry about? Who/what are you missing? 4Qs What are you learning? What do you need now?
- 41. Let go with persistence & patience. Address your emotions. Heartbroken Participate in community.
- 42. Let go with persistence & patience. Address your emotions. Heartbroken Participate in community. Enjoy the new normalcy.
- 43. Gospel
- 44. Honesty Gospel
- 45. Honesty Empathy Gospel
- 46. Honesty Empathy Gospel Conviction
- 47. Honesty Empathy Gospel Conviction Hope
- 48. “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” -Revelation 21:4
- 49. Q&A
Editor's Notes
- #9: Sense of rejection - Loss [time, money, friends] - Force to let go - Youthful idealism; Gospel > Things are not as they ought to be (Gen 3)
- #38: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15) / “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4)
- #39: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15) / “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4)
- #40: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15) / “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4)
- #41: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin.” (Hebrews 4:15) / “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4)