LET'S GET MARRIED: PART ONE
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This document provides questions to ask when considering marriage and suggests being thorough in evaluating a potential spouse. It lists questions about the person's beliefs, background, lifestyle, finances, family relationships and more. Scriptures are cited encouraging testing a potential friend first before getting close and being ready to explain your beliefs with gentleness. The overall message is to carefully evaluate whether a potential spouse shares your beliefs and values before making a decision to marry.
LET'S GET MARRIED: PART ONE
- 1. PART ONE:PART ONE: PROVINGPROVING "LET'S GET MARRIED""LET'S GET MARRIED"
- 2. CLASS INTRODUCTIONCLASS INTRODUCTION • 1PETER 2:2=DESIRE,SINCERELY. • AMOS 3:1-2=FAMILY. • QUESTIONS TO ASK. • SCRIPTURES. • MAKE A DECISION.
- 3. QUESTIONS?QUESTIONS? • ARE THEY WISE IN ALL THE LAWS OF MOSES? • DO THEY BELIEVE IN THE MOST HIGH AND CHRIST? • HOW OLD ARE THEY? • IS THEIR FATHER OF NEGRO DECENT? • IS HIS/HER MOTHER OF ANOTHER NATION? • DO THEY BELIEVE IN THE MOST HIGH AND CHRIST? • DOES HE BELIEVE IN MULTIPLE WIVES? • DOES SHE BELIEVE THAT SHE CAN DIVORCE YOU IF YOU'RE UNFAITHFUL?
- 4. QUESTIONS?QUESTIONS? •• HAVE THEY EVER BEEN IN ANHAVE THEY EVER BEEN IN AN HOMOSEXUAL/LESBIANHOMOSEXUAL/LESBIAN RELATIONSHIP?RELATIONSHIP? •• DOES HE/SHE HAVE CHILDRENDOES HE/SHE HAVE CHILDREN & DOES HE/SHE HAVE& DOES HE/SHE HAVE MULTIPLE BABYMULTIPLE BABY MOTHERS/FATHERS?MOTHERS/FATHERS? •• DO THEY BELIEVE INDO THEY BELIEVE IN DISCIPLINING CHILDREN WITHDISCIPLINING CHILDREN WITH THE ROD?THE ROD? •• DO THEY DESIRE CHILDREN?DO THEY DESIRE CHILDREN?
- 5. QUESTIONS?QUESTIONS? •• IS HE/SHE ANIS HE/SHE AN INTROVERT/EXTROVERT?INTROVERT/EXTROVERT? •• DO THEY SPEND A LOT OF TIMEDO THEY SPEND A LOT OF TIME WITH WORLDLY PEOPLE?WITH WORLDLY PEOPLE? •• CAN HE/SHE COOK? WHAT TYPECAN HE/SHE COOK? WHAT TYPE OF DIET DO THEY ASCRIBE TO?OF DIET DO THEY ASCRIBE TO? •• HOW IS THEIR RELATIONSHIPHOW IS THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR FAMILY?WITH THEIR FAMILY? •• WHAT TYPE OFWHAT TYPE OF ENTERTAINMENT DO THEYENTERTAINMENT DO THEY ENJOY? DO THEY HAVE A SENSEENJOY? DO THEY HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR?OF HUMOR?
- 6. QUESTIONS?QUESTIONS? •• WHAT ARE HIS/HER FINANCIALWHAT ARE HIS/HER FINANCIAL STATUS?STATUS? •• IS HE/SHE FAMILY OR CAREERIS HE/SHE FAMILY OR CAREER ORIENTED?ORIENTED? •• IS HE HANDY AROUND THEIS HE HANDY AROUND THE HOUSE?HOUSE? •• IS SHE A GOOD KEEPER OF THEIS SHE A GOOD KEEPER OF THE HOUSE?HOUSE? •• ARE YOU READY TO SUBMIT?ARE YOU READY TO SUBMIT? •• ARE YOU READY TO TAKE ONARE YOU READY TO TAKE ON HIS/HER EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE?HIS/HER EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE?
- 7. SCRIPTURESSCRIPTURES ""But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts:But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer toand be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of theevery man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness andhope that is in you with meekness and fearfear"" 1stPETER 3:151stPETER 3:15 ""Lie not one to another, seeing that ye haveLie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deedsput off the old man with his deeds."." COLOSSIANS 3:9COLOSSIANS 3:9 ""Be not ignorant of any thing in a greatBe not ignorant of any thing in a great matter or a small.matter or a small."" SIRACH 5:15SIRACH 5:15
- 8. SCRIPTURESSCRIPTURES •• ""If thou wouldest get a friend,If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty toprove him first and be not hasty to credit him.credit him."" SIRACH 6:7SIRACH 6:7