This document provides lessons and tips for life coaching and open source communities. The lessons include that being in a respected industry is unnecessary for success; free solutions have value as gifts; relationships are critical; and people want to feel loved and appreciated. The tips advise connecting with people emotionally, focusing on customer benefits over personal interests, giving value to gain contribution, prioritizing benefits over features, and empowering downstream communities. The document shares blueprints and resources for building a client base and community.