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Nerd-Wrangling 101
Managing Neurodiversity with cognitive empathy

Meredith L. Patterson & Julian Finn
Who
• Meredith L. Patterson - @maradydd

• Julian Finn - @hdsjulian
Neurodiversity
Show of hands!
Neurodiversity
• Why this talk?

• Neurodiversity explained

• Who is affected?
Why this talk?
• It matters to us

• It should matter to you

• There’s stuff to be done about it
Neurodiversity explained
• Superpowers

• Super-Weaknesses 

• Social aspects
Superpowers: ADHD
• “Like trying to concentrate while ten squirrels are jumping
up your legs”

• Filter-Weakness

• Different types

• Comes with a lot of acquired behavior
Nerd-Wrangling 101: Managing Neurodiversity with Cognitive Empathy
Basal Ganglia
ADHD: Hyperactive Type
Inattentive ADHD + Autism
Superpowers: Autism
Spectrum Disorder
• “Like being part of a movie where everybody else has the
script”

• Senses can have the gain turned up or down

• Pattern-matching

• Detail orientation

• Thinking in systems
Autism
Super-Weaknesses
Super-Weaknesses:
Disorders
• Depression, Anxiety etc

• No real upside

• But: Can give you a unique insight into life

• Often: Coping technique

• Very often: Comorbidity with ADHD / ASD
Depression
Anxiety
Super-Weaknesses:
Addiction
Imposter Syndrome
Social Aspects
• Neurodiversity is not visible

• Discrimination happens a lot

• “The poor are crazy, the rich just eccentric” - Ellen Raskin,
The Westing Game
Who’s affected? Us!
• Mautinoa: ~10 Employees, almost everybody somehow
affected

• We figured out a way to deal with it
Who’s affected: You!
• Many nerds match the descriptions of neurodiversity

• Even if you are neurotypical: Many fellow hackers aren’t.

• And you want to take them seriously, right?
Empathy
• Cognitive vs Affective Empathy

• Requirements

• Solution orientation
Affective Empathy
• Being affected by the emotional arousal of others

• Empathic concern — sympathy/compassion for others

• Personal distress — discomfort/anxiety

• A self-oriented response to others’ suffering

• Somatic empathy: somatic nervous system response,
probably based on mirror neurons

• Essential for establishing rapport
Cognitive Empathy
• Understanding others’ perspectives / states of mind

• Perspective taking: understanding what motivates
someone to act a certain way

• Tactical empathy: using perspective-taking deliberately

• Some overlap with theory of mind
Cognitive Empathy:
Requirements
• Courage

• Time

• Understanding of Conditions

• Psychological Visibility
Solution Orientation
• Admitting

• Listening

• Acting
What to do
• Leading by example

• Maintaining a deep bench

• Praise and criticism

• Practical Examples
Leading by example
• “Yes, we are also affected”

• “It’s okay to be vulnerable”

• Listen.
Maintaining a deep bench
• Downtimes are normal — accept them

• Make sure everything is covered — keep bus numbers
high
Praise and Criticism
• Praise in public, criticize in private

• Find understanding ways to criticize

• Praise for simple things (Psychological visibility)
Practical examples
• Anxiety check-in

• Provide both freedom and structure

• Pairing is Caring - Within people’s limitations!
Everything else is
stories
Reading Recommendations
- Autism
• Neurotribes (Steven Silberman)

• The boy whose brain could unlock autism (Medium by
Maia Szalavitz / google “boy unlock autism”) 

• "You don't seem autistic - unpacking diagnostic
criteria” (Medium by Martha Rose Saunders)

• Wrongplanet Forum - wrongplanet.net
Reading Recommendations
- ADHD
• Self-Help ADHD Subreddit /r/ADHD

• additude Magazine - additudemag.com 

• Books? Problem: They’re too long!

• Russell Barkley - Taking Charge of Adult ADHD

• Lots of good Youtube Vids though!
Thank you.
Questions?
Acknowledgements
• Ragen Roberts

• Reddit, Twitter, Tumblr - Well, THE INTERNET!

• Our Team, our Test Crowd

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