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Acceptance & change:
DIALECTICAL strategies
Balance acceptance and change; teach patient to be dialectical
1 therapeutic relationship: be aware of dialectical tensions
2 in all interactions, teach and model dialectical behaviour patterns
Acceptance & change:
DIALECTICAL strategies
Dialectical strategies
1 Entering the paradox
Eg koans
Refuse to step in with logical explanation to
allow the client to step out of the struggle
‘Both-and’ not ‘either-or’
Dialectical strategies
2 Using metaphor
Stories are easier to remember
Metaphors can communicate difficult stuff-e.g.
the effect of client’s behaviour on others
Useful metaphors: marathon not sprint; rescuing
vs visiting; use e.g.s from client’s interests
Keep a metaphor book
Dialectical strategies
3 Devil’s advocate
Therapist presents thesis (extreme maladaptive
belief)
Client presents antithesis
Eg T:‘if you offend anyone it is a mortal
catastrophe. You should be deported form the
country and all your assets seized’ C:’ well, I’m
not that bad’
Dialectical strategies
4 Extending
Take the patient more seriously than she takes
herself
Take anticipated consequences literally then
respond to seriousness
E.g. ‘I see, you really can’t carry on with DBT, we
must take that seriously…do you think we really
need to consider ending therapy?’
Dialectical strategies
5 Activating wise mind
Convince client she can do this
Can use ‘Well’ metaphor/floating on cloud/etc
‘What do you know in your wise mind to be
true/right?’
Dialectical strategies
6 Making lemonade out of lemons
‘I got the sack’
‘Wow now we have a chance to practise distress
tolerance big time’
‘was (the homework) hard?
‘yes’
‘good, now we know you can do hard things’
Dialectical strategies
7 Allowing natural change
Change, development and inconsistency are
inherent in any environment and are allowed to
proceed naturally
The client is encouraged to learn to tolerate and
adapt to change rather than keep environment
stable
Dialectical strategies
Dialectical assessment
?is the problem a fatal flaw in the client or a fatal
flaw in the social fabric?
Be aware of the oppressive/problem-producing
nature of some therapeutic rules, styles and
systems
Dialectical Skills
Enter the Paradox (both – and)
Metaphors
Lemonade out of Lemons (what a great
opportunity….)
Devil’s Advocate (you may find this too difficult...)
Extending (this is serious – perhaps we/you should..)
Wise Mind (taking both your emotions and knowledge,
what do you know in your gut/heart to be right?)
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Reciprocal style:
responsiveness
staying awake
considering the client’s agenda, clients’
desired session content.
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Self-disclosure
orient patient to what types of self-disclosure will
occur from the therapist
self-involving self-disclosure (reactions to
patient, heart to heart, ‘when you do X I feel Y’)
personal information: qualifications, experience
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Warm engagement:
observing limits
coping with rage at the patient
use of touch
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Genuineness
Being a ‘real’ therapist
Having a ‘real’ relationship
Be yourself
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Vulnerability
This is a high-power-low-power relationship
Because the therapist could not bear to be
more/equally vulnerable than client
Also, because the focus must be on the client
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Irreverent style:
1 reframing (in unorthodox manner)
E.g. ‘so, what you’re saying is that you’d rather
suffer from anxiety for the rest of your life than
do this one hard thing?
2 where angels fear to tread
E.g. ‘I’m sorry, we just have no success with
corpses’
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Irreverent style (contd)
3 confrontational tone
E.g. so what the hell have we been doing all
these months?
4 calling patient’s bluff
e.g. ‘OK so I am no good as a therapist,
perhaps you should sack me?’
STYLISTIC STRATEGIES
Irreverent style (contd)
5 Intensity and silence
E.g. look long at client and say nothing
6 omnipotence and impotence
E.g. ‘that can always be sorted’
Or ‘well I am completely helpless here’
Environmental intervention (consultation to staff/the
wider care system): keep to minimum; do only when patient
is unable, when environment is high power, to save life, when
humane, when minor issue.
Consultation to the patient strategies: effective self-care,
decrease ‘splitting’, how to manage other professionals.
Consultation to the therapist: consult group: meeting
agenda, consultation agreements, cheerleading, dialectical
balance, staff splitting, unethical behaviour, confidentiality.
CASE MANAGEMENT
strategies
CONSULT GROUP: APPLYING DBT
WITH OURSELVES
Environmental events and context are just as
important in shaping therapeutic behaviour as in
shaping clients’ behaviour, laws of human
behaviour apply to us as well!
Consult Group Agreements
Dialectical agreement; consultation to the client;
consistency; observing limits, phenomenological
empathy; fallibility.
Consult Group Agreements
Dialectical agreement; consultation to the client;
consistency; observing limits, phenomenological
empathy; fallibility.
Consult Group Agendas:
Supervision Meeting:
Mindfulness
Problems with treatment, review at least one case
Skills trainers tell individual therapists what skills being taught and individual
issues in skills training
Chain Analysis of lateness/absence
Institutional limits on client behaviour.
Staying DBT adherent
Review an aspect of DBT
Business Meeting
Mindfulness
Client tracking
New referrals
Allocation
Audit
Service issues (referral criteria)
Managing the wider system]
Consult Group Cheerleading
Therapist demoralisation: seeing the wood for the
trees
Hopeless thoughts
Validation and problem solving therapist mistakes.
Providing Dialectical Balance
Applying DBT strategies with one another
Over-protectiveness, rage, validate and reframe
‘Staff Splitting’
Arguments among staff are seen as failures in
synthesis
Staff splits staff, client does not
Become aware of what precipitates disagreement
and of ‘wave patterns’ of attachment
Unethical or Destructive
Therapist Behaviour
Minimum levels of competence, ethics and non-
defensiveness not met: elephant in the room
Confidentiality
Therapist disclosures are confidential to consult
group
Case discussion may be disclosed judiciously to
client

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Teach 9 and 10 dialectical and stylistic strategies and dbt with selves

  • 1. Acceptance & change: DIALECTICAL strategies Balance acceptance and change; teach patient to be dialectical 1 therapeutic relationship: be aware of dialectical tensions 2 in all interactions, teach and model dialectical behaviour patterns
  • 3. Dialectical strategies 1 Entering the paradox Eg koans Refuse to step in with logical explanation to allow the client to step out of the struggle ‘Both-and’ not ‘either-or’
  • 4. Dialectical strategies 2 Using metaphor Stories are easier to remember Metaphors can communicate difficult stuff-e.g. the effect of client’s behaviour on others Useful metaphors: marathon not sprint; rescuing vs visiting; use e.g.s from client’s interests Keep a metaphor book
  • 5. Dialectical strategies 3 Devil’s advocate Therapist presents thesis (extreme maladaptive belief) Client presents antithesis Eg T:‘if you offend anyone it is a mortal catastrophe. You should be deported form the country and all your assets seized’ C:’ well, I’m not that bad’
  • 6. Dialectical strategies 4 Extending Take the patient more seriously than she takes herself Take anticipated consequences literally then respond to seriousness E.g. ‘I see, you really can’t carry on with DBT, we must take that seriously…do you think we really need to consider ending therapy?’
  • 7. Dialectical strategies 5 Activating wise mind Convince client she can do this Can use ‘Well’ metaphor/floating on cloud/etc ‘What do you know in your wise mind to be true/right?’
  • 8. Dialectical strategies 6 Making lemonade out of lemons ‘I got the sack’ ‘Wow now we have a chance to practise distress tolerance big time’ ‘was (the homework) hard? ‘yes’ ‘good, now we know you can do hard things’
  • 9. Dialectical strategies 7 Allowing natural change Change, development and inconsistency are inherent in any environment and are allowed to proceed naturally The client is encouraged to learn to tolerate and adapt to change rather than keep environment stable
  • 10. Dialectical strategies Dialectical assessment ?is the problem a fatal flaw in the client or a fatal flaw in the social fabric? Be aware of the oppressive/problem-producing nature of some therapeutic rules, styles and systems
  • 11. Dialectical Skills Enter the Paradox (both – and) Metaphors Lemonade out of Lemons (what a great opportunity….) Devil’s Advocate (you may find this too difficult...) Extending (this is serious – perhaps we/you should..) Wise Mind (taking both your emotions and knowledge, what do you know in your gut/heart to be right?)
  • 12. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Reciprocal style: responsiveness staying awake considering the client’s agenda, clients’ desired session content.
  • 13. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Self-disclosure orient patient to what types of self-disclosure will occur from the therapist self-involving self-disclosure (reactions to patient, heart to heart, ‘when you do X I feel Y’) personal information: qualifications, experience
  • 14. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Warm engagement: observing limits coping with rage at the patient use of touch
  • 15. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Genuineness Being a ‘real’ therapist Having a ‘real’ relationship Be yourself
  • 16. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Vulnerability This is a high-power-low-power relationship Because the therapist could not bear to be more/equally vulnerable than client Also, because the focus must be on the client
  • 17. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Irreverent style: 1 reframing (in unorthodox manner) E.g. ‘so, what you’re saying is that you’d rather suffer from anxiety for the rest of your life than do this one hard thing? 2 where angels fear to tread E.g. ‘I’m sorry, we just have no success with corpses’
  • 18. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Irreverent style (contd) 3 confrontational tone E.g. so what the hell have we been doing all these months? 4 calling patient’s bluff e.g. ‘OK so I am no good as a therapist, perhaps you should sack me?’
  • 19. STYLISTIC STRATEGIES Irreverent style (contd) 5 Intensity and silence E.g. look long at client and say nothing 6 omnipotence and impotence E.g. ‘that can always be sorted’ Or ‘well I am completely helpless here’
  • 20. Environmental intervention (consultation to staff/the wider care system): keep to minimum; do only when patient is unable, when environment is high power, to save life, when humane, when minor issue. Consultation to the patient strategies: effective self-care, decrease ‘splitting’, how to manage other professionals. Consultation to the therapist: consult group: meeting agenda, consultation agreements, cheerleading, dialectical balance, staff splitting, unethical behaviour, confidentiality. CASE MANAGEMENT strategies
  • 21. CONSULT GROUP: APPLYING DBT WITH OURSELVES Environmental events and context are just as important in shaping therapeutic behaviour as in shaping clients’ behaviour, laws of human behaviour apply to us as well!
  • 22. Consult Group Agreements Dialectical agreement; consultation to the client; consistency; observing limits, phenomenological empathy; fallibility.
  • 23. Consult Group Agreements Dialectical agreement; consultation to the client; consistency; observing limits, phenomenological empathy; fallibility.
  • 24. Consult Group Agendas: Supervision Meeting: Mindfulness Problems with treatment, review at least one case Skills trainers tell individual therapists what skills being taught and individual issues in skills training Chain Analysis of lateness/absence Institutional limits on client behaviour. Staying DBT adherent Review an aspect of DBT
  • 25. Business Meeting Mindfulness Client tracking New referrals Allocation Audit Service issues (referral criteria) Managing the wider system]
  • 26. Consult Group Cheerleading Therapist demoralisation: seeing the wood for the trees Hopeless thoughts Validation and problem solving therapist mistakes.
  • 27. Providing Dialectical Balance Applying DBT strategies with one another Over-protectiveness, rage, validate and reframe
  • 28. ‘Staff Splitting’ Arguments among staff are seen as failures in synthesis Staff splits staff, client does not Become aware of what precipitates disagreement and of ‘wave patterns’ of attachment
  • 29. Unethical or Destructive Therapist Behaviour Minimum levels of competence, ethics and non- defensiveness not met: elephant in the room
  • 30. Confidentiality Therapist disclosures are confidential to consult group Case discussion may be disclosed judiciously to client