7. observing your language patterns
- 1. Link Profit System Training Observing Language Patterns
- 2. Link Profit System Training Each Thought is Impactful • But what is more impactful? – Each word that comes out of your mouth – It’s reinforced to the brain much more – As you are taking action on it.
- 3. Link Profit System Training Words You Shouldn’t Be Using • Can’t • Need • Want • Never • Always
- 4. Link Profit System Training You Might Think I’m Excessive Now • But there are computer programs that are out there that can determine your success/failure with 99% accuracy based on your language patterns • I know, I Have consulted such a company
- 5. Link Profit System Training Your Language is Totally Unique to You • Things you can’t, want, need, or never/always do are why you are at whatever stage you are in life
- 6. Link Profit System Training The Problem with Can’t • Shuts your brain off to possibilities • You’re a Muslim, possibilities are endless • If you tell yourself you can’t do things, your mind has an expectation to not event try – And so it doesn’t
- 7. Link Profit System Training Observe Your “Can’t” Language Patterns • Do you use “can’t” often – Start to catch yourself • It’s very damaging because you are repeating it over and over
- 8. Link Profit System Training Alternative to Can’t • I will • I’m going to • Of course, in sha Allah
- 9. Link Profit System Training The Word “Need” Creates Separation • When you use the word “need” you create separation between you and your goal • Using this words a lot causes you to not be resourceful • If you’re not resourceful, you will expend to much energy and effort to things • Subconsciously create victim mentality
- 10. Link Profit System Training Observe Your Use of Need • I read this all the time with people on chat • They constantly “need” things • Need to cook, need to clean, need to relax – Stop using it, and just do it • Overusing the word need causes a victim mentality
- 11. Link Profit System Training Observe Want • This is so common • I want to go on vacation, I want to eat… – I want, want, want • People never stop wanting • Subconsciously creates worthless mentality • Heart can’t be happy wanting
- 12. Link Profit System Training Wanting • “I want money” – What does this mean? • You don’t have money • Brain understands you don’t have it • That it’s an important thing and you get used to not having it
- 13. Link Profit System Training Alternatives to Want • I’m getting • I’m doing • I’m trying (not the best)
- 14. Link Profit System Training What You Are Telling Yourself on a Daily Basis is All that Matters • Things Like… – I’m so stupid – Why did I do that? – Why does it always happen to me? • These are very obvious
- 15. Link Profit System Training Pedestal Trap
- 16. Link Profit System Training Never and Always Are For Extremists • When you say never and always, you are being extreme – This extreme language causes your brain to think in extremes and limits possibilities • Just talk normal without extremes
- 17. Link Profit System Training Get Used to Saying No • Saying Yes to every request from people will cause endless decision fatigue • Wants you start getting used to saying ‘no’ people get used to expecting ‘no’
- 18. Link Profit System Training But What About Helping Others • Help others as part of your system – Your charity foundation – Your regular volunteer work – Your allowance to your parents • Do not help others randomly – It’s too much energy. • Have alternatives to random request – Send someone else to do it
- 19. Link Profit System Training The Quality of Your Life is Based on the Questions You Ask • Never ask “Why” or “How” Questions • But start to look for answers around you • Rather than saying… Why does everyone have wealth? – Say to yourself: What does this person know or do that I’m not doing? • Know that you don’t know
- 20. Link Profit System Training Start to Ask Better Questions • “Why and “How” questions lead to insufficient answers? – Because they are usually done in the past tense • Why did that happen? • How are we going to do this? • What and When questions are much more effective? – What resources are required? – When can we complete the project?
- 21. Link Profit System Training To Do • Observe your Language patterns • Start to eliminate limiting languages that are spoken aloud