Dealing With Rudeness
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The document discusses the various forms of rudeness, categorizing it into aggressive, casual, disguised, and unwitting rudeness. It emphasizes the importance of managing responses to rudeness, offering tips on how to handle such situations effectively without escalating conflicts. Additionally, it highlights common rude behaviors observed in society, aiming to raise awareness about the impact of rudeness on social interactions.
Dealing With Rudeness
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- 2. For A Word Of Only Four Letters, “Rude”……..
- 3. Has More Than Its Share Of Meanings, Ranging From …….
- 4. “In – Your – Face Aggressiveness”
- 5. Grrrrrrrrr……
- 6. To “Insults”, So Subtle ……
- 8. Don’t Hit You Until Hours Later ……
- 9. To Understand Rudeness, You Need To See Through Its Many Guises….
- 10. To Understand Rudeness, You Need To See Through Its Many Guises…. It’s Worth Noting The Myriad Ways That People Get Under One Another’s Skin
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- 13. Intentional Rudeness http://fc00.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2012/288/0/0/mist_the_death_by_mistthedeath-d4te4xq.png (Labelled for Reuse)
- 14. No – Holds – Barred, No – Bones – About – It
- 15. Is Designed To Punish You For Something You’ve Done http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/93/Wicked_Witch_of_the_West.png (Commons Labelled for Reuse)
- 16. For Ex: You’re Screamed At After Accidentally Bumping Into A Passerby …..
- 17. Or “To Put You In Your Place” http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/4729/2827/1600/BettyRobber_June2006.jpg (Labelled for Reuse0
- 18. For Ex: A Coworker Unfairly Criticizes You For “Thinking You’re So Smart”….
- 19. Or “To Extract Revenge”
- 20. For Ex: On The Road, You’re Purposely Slowed Down By A Driver Who Feels You Cut Him Off
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- 23. http://th08.deviantart.net/fs71/PRE/i/2012/039/7/a/jared_by_nin10dohfanatic-d4p1vu0.png (Labelled for Reuse) Often Unconscious On The Part Of Those Who Practice It
- 24. This Isn’t Directed At You Personally But Drives You Crazy Nonetheless.
- 25. Falling Into This Category Are Such Acts As …..
- 26. http://www.healthyskinsolutions.com/wp-content/uploads/cell-phone.jpg (Labelled for Reuse) Disturbing The Peace By Loudly Yakking Away On A Cell Phone
- 27. http://pixabay.com/p-410328/?no_redirect ( (Free Photos) Or Always In A Hurry – To Be In The Front – Habitually – Type A Personality
- 28. Or Blocking A Busy Sidewalk By Standing Smack – Dab In The Middle To Chat With Friends. http://pixabay.com/p-99161/?no_redirect (pixbay.com) Free Photos
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- 31. Some Rudeness Comes Clothed In Kid Gloves
- 32. Perfect Examples: Back - Handed Compliments …. Such As ….. http://fc03.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/184/8/0/ciel_phantomhive_smile______by_darkevilcristina-d55swda.jpg (Labelled for Reuse)
- 33. “Love That New Haircut!” (even if it is not in shape ….. ) http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/67/Haircut_in_ISS_ISS026-E-017736_(15_Jan._2011).jpg (Labelled for Reuse)
- 34. Or “You Look So Much Better Than You Did With That Long Hair!” http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/40/Wave_Gotik_Treffen_2007.jpg (Labelled for reuse with modification)
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- 37. These Are Unintentional ….. But Are Often Spoken Of As ….. “Rude”
- 38. Poor Table Manners…. Using Cell phone While Having Food
- 39. And Talking At High Volume Because Of A Hearing Problem http://www.nowtrendingtv.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Depositphotos_5228805_l.jpg (Labelled for Commercial Use)
- 40. The New Buzzword Status Of “Rage” Reflects The Mounting Frustrations Of Life In The Modern World ………. And Who Knows????
- 41. The New Buzzword Status Of “Rage” Reflects The Mounting Frustrations Of Life In The Modern World ………. And Who Knows???? …….. It Might Even Contribute To The Common Good…….
- 42. The New Buzzword Status Of “Rage” Reflects The Mounting Frustrations Of Life In The Modern World ………. And Who Knows???? …….. It Might Even Contribute To The Common Good……. The More People Are Reminded Of The Risks And Dangers Inherent In The Loss Of Self-control…..
- 43. The New Buzzword Status Of “Rage” Reflects The Mounting Frustrations Of Life In The Modern World ………. And Who Knows???? …….. It Might Even Contribute To The Common Good……. The More People Are Reminded Of The Risks And Dangers Inherent In The Loss Of Self – Control….. The More Likely They Are To Think Twice Before Angrily Confronting A Fellow Human Being.
- 44. The Art of Responding To Rudeness
- 45. Most People Are Loath To Challenge Rudeness, Because….
- 46. Most People Are Loath To Challenge Rudeness, Because…. …. They’re Fearful That Even A Minor Confrontation Might Easily Escalate
- 47. Most People Are Loath To Challenge Rudeness, Because…. …. They’re Fearful That Even A Minor Confrontation Might Easily Escalate Sometimes, Sympathizing With The Other Person—Just Expressing Your Understanding Of Why An Incident Occurred — Is All It Takes
- 48. On An Airplane, For Example, You Politely Tell A Parent That His Youngster Is Kicking The Back Of Your Seat And The Parent Comes Back With An Angry Retort
- 49. On An Airplane, For Example, You Politely Tell A Parent That His Youngster Is Kicking The Back Of Your Seat And The Parent Comes Back With An Angry Retort Your Calm Response: “Please Don’t Shout. I Know The Space Is Tight And Kids Will Be Kids, But Your Daughter Has Been Kicking My Seat Since We Boarded. I’d Really Appreciate It If You Would Ask Her To Stop”
- 50. Other Things To Consider When Someone Is Rude To You Could Be
- 51. Other Things To Consider When Someone Is Rude To You Could Be 1. Don’t Automatically Take It Personally. Sometimes The Offender Has Had A Terrible Day Or Is Simply In A Bad Mood
- 52. Other Things To Consider When Someone Is Rude To You Could Be 1. Don’t Automatically Take It Personally. Sometimes The Offender Has Had A Terrible Day Or Is Simply In A Bad Mood 2. Size Up Your Annoyances. Sometimes It’s Best To Let Things Go.
- 53. Other Things To Consider When Someone Is Rude To You Could Be 1. Don’t Automatically Take It Personally. Sometimes The Offender Has Had A Terrible Day Or Is Simply In A Bad Mood 2. Size Up Your Annoyances. Sometimes It’s Best To Let Things Go. 3. Take Responsibility For Your Own Actions. Ask Yourself Whether You Did Something To Provoke The Treatment.
- 54. Other Things To Consider When Someone Is Rude To You Could Be 1. Don’t Automatically Take It Personally. Sometimes The Offender Has Had A Terrible Day Or Is Simply In A Bad Mood 2. Size Up Your Annoyances. Sometimes It’s Best To Let Things Go. 3. Take Responsibility For Your Own Actions. Ask Yourself Whether You Did Something To Provoke The Treatment. 4. Mentally Count To 10. When Someone Else’s Behavior Makes You Angry, Forget & Focus On Yourself Or Something Else For A Few Secs..
- 55. Today’s Top 6 Rudest Behaviours
- 56. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes
- 57. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes 2. Using Four – Letter Words And Other Obscenities In Public Without Any Reservations, Especially In Presence Of Children
- 58. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes 2. Using Four – Letter Words And Other Obscenities In Public Without Any Reservations, Especially In Presence Of Children 3. Doing The “Cell Yell”— Conducting A Cell Phone Conversation Loudly
- 59. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes 2. Using Four – Letter Words And Other Obscenities In Public Without Any Reservations, Especially In Presence Of Children 3. Doing The “Cell Yell”— Conducting A Cell Phone Conversation Loudly 4. Treating A Salesperson, Food Server, Or Any Other Service Provider As Someone Who’s Beneath You
- 60. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes 2. Using Four – Letter Words And Other Obscenities In Public Without Any Reservations, Especially In Presence Of Children 3. Doing The “Cell Yell”— Conducting A Cell Phone Conversation Loudly 4. Treating A Salesperson, Food Server, Or Any Other Service Provider As Someone Who’s Beneath You 5. Letting Kids Run Wild Or Make Constant Noise In Restaurants, Supermarkets, Theaters Or Any Other Public Or Private Places
- 61. 1. Telling Racist Or Ethnic Jokes 2. Using Four – Letter Words And Other Obscenities In Public Without Any Reservations, Especially In Presence Of Children 3. Doing The “Cell Yell”— Conducting A Cell Phone Conversation Loudly 4. Treating A Salesperson, Food Server, Or Any Other Service Provider As Someone Who’s Beneath You 5. Letting Kids Run Wild Or Make Constant Noise In Restaurants, Supermarkets, Theaters Or Any Other Public Or Private Places 6. On Public Transportation, Staying Planted In Your Seat When An Elderly, Pregnant, Or Disabled Person Obviously Needs It More
- 62. Inspired & Compiled From The Book “Etiquettes – A Definitive Guide To Manners” 17th Edition
- 63. Hello! Sadashiv Borgaonkar Management Strategist, Educator & Consultant ACTSol & Associates www.actsol.in @sada_borg11 @actsol_connect sadashiv@actsol.in http://in.linkedin.com/in/sadashivborgaonkar/