This document discusses the need to decolonize learning spaces and move away from assumptions of safety. It argues that the concept of a "safe space" is problematic as no space is equally safe for all. Instead, it proposes moving towards the idea of "safe-enough spaces" that embrace uncertainty and vulnerability. The document outlines some of the risks of harm that can occur, such as harassment or isolation, when having difficult conversations about identity in learning environments. It concludes that educators should surrender the idea that they can offer absolute safety and instead focus on co-creating terms of engagement and practical actions that make spaces safe enough for open discussion and intellectual growth.