How to Reinvent Yourself with Tami Green
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This document provides a comprehensive guide on personal reinvention, highlighting the importance of acceptance, imagination, and setting long-term goals. It includes personal anecdotes of overcoming adversity, as well as practical strategies and a six-week course designed to help individuals achieve significant life changes. The course is positioned as an invaluable investment for those ready to transform their lives and includes bonuses such as group discussions and additional resources.
How to Reinvent Yourself with Tami Green
- 3. How to get the most from this workshop! 1. Do the work. 2. Close your door. 3. Turn off phone and other browsers and apps. 4. Ask questions. 5. Stay until the end! (Plus you get free bonus!) S
- 4. I'm thrilled you're here because we're a lot alike, you and me. We're both trying to make a life out of what we love to do. We all have to reinvent ourselves many times through life.
- 5. Sometimes its because something awesome has happened. And sometimes its because you lose everything and are a zero.
- 6. Every day you reinvent yourself. You’re always in motion. But you decide every day: forward or
- 7. It doesn’t matter if you: Z Lost your mind in public: Brittany Spears Z Tried to kill yourself: Owen Wilson, Halle Berry Z Went to jail: Teresa (real housewives), Fatburger CEO Andrew Wiederhorn, Martha Stewart Z Got fired: Steve Jobs Z Nobody believes you: Jesus Z Were left for a younger woman Ivana Trump Z Sex tape: Kim Kardashian W
- 8. In September of 2013, Diana Nyad became the first person to swim the 110 miles from Cuba to Florida without a shark cage. As a 64-year-old,she had tried and failed to complete this swim on four different occasions.
- 9. . Recognize this guy? Four corporate bankruptcies in 1991, 1992, 2004 and 2009. Lost a LOT in his divorce when it was revealed he had an affair.
- 10. In my late thirties and early forties: I had my house foreclosed on. Lost custody of my children. Sunk into a deep depression. Tried to kill myself three times. My children stopped speaking to me. Became isolated and couldn't find my way out.
- 11. When I reached my lowest, I opened up my arms and became willing to do anything, be anything, to make it better. That is when my
- 12. The result: I testified to Members of Congress. Have had over 700,000 YouTube channel views. Have spoken to and coached 1000's on how to regain your mental health and how to take back your life.
- 13. I've had six short books published, including one that was translated into Japanese. And invented a mental health certification program to train others to do what I did.
- 14. Best of All: Reconciled with all five of my children. Got married. Had a baby with my new husband at the age of 48. Had twin girls at the age of 50. Improved all my relationships.
- 15. Now I will show you how I changed my life. And how you can, too.
- 17. It’s okay to get disillusioned. That’s what failure is about.
- 19. We have to modify our identities as we go through life," says Ravenna Helson, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley. She directed the Mills Study, which followed some 120 women over 50 years, proving in the process that it's never too late to reinvent yourself. In the study, about a dozen
- 20. It may be painful to accept a few things. But you will suffer if you aren't willing to accept.
- 21. To stop suffering,we must accept and move on. What are you not accepting?
- 24. Imagination!
- 25. Researchers from the University of Rochester found that people working toward things are: S personally fulfilled S less depressed S and more satisfied with their lives than those who are striving primarily to impress the outside world.
- 26. According to a series of studies led by Ken Sheldon, a psychology professor at the University of Missouri, they are also: S more likely to achieve personal goals, S the most likely to make steady progress. S more likely to devote sustained effort despite
- 29. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. AHA
- 30. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. 1. Get a piece of paper.
- 31. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. 1. Get a piece of paper. 2. Fold it in half.
- 32. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. 1. Get a piece of paper. 2. Fold it in half. 3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and what has happened to you.
- 33. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. 1. Get a piece of paper. 2. Fold it in half. 3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and what has happened to you. 4. Write down every negative thing you can think of.
- 34. Twirling: Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy and see the world differently. 1. Get a piece of paper. 2. Fold it in half. 3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and what has happened to you. 4. Write down every negative thing you can think of. 5. Twirl it!
- 35. Success is better than failure but the biggest lessons are found in failure.
- 37. Hugging A hug can indicate support, comfort, and consolation, particularly where words are insufficient.
- 38. Simple Definition of hug : to put your arms around someone especially as a way of showing love or friendship : to hold (something) tightly with your arms : to stay close to (something)
- 40. Embrace what you most despise.
- 42. Dealing with what people think about you is the biggest thing. Get over it. Be who you are. It's beautiful.
- 45. Jigsaw puzzle pieces. Let's recap! 1. What you know you need to accept from Step 1. 2. What you've learned you want from Step 2. 3. What you dream your life will be from Step 3. 4.Who and what you will hug from
- 46. “You have to give yourself enough timeto actually accomplish your goal." -Art Markman, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and the author of Smart Change.
- 47. "It's the big picture things that give life meaning," he says, "like parenting or becoming an expert at something."
- 48. “If you don't have long-term goals”, Markman warns, “you run the risk of doing lots of little things every day cleaning the house, sending emails, catching up on TV, without ever making a contribution to your future. That can leave you feeling restless and unfulfilled.”
- 51. Playing Z Make concentric circles. You’re at the middle. J
- 52. Playing Z The next circle is friends and family. J
- 54. Playing... Z The next circle is online communities.
- 56. Playing... Z The circle after that is meet-ups, support groups and coffees.
- 57. Playing... Z The circle after that is mentors.
- 58. Playing... Z The circle after that is followers.
- 60. Playing... Z The circle after that is conferences and thought leaders.
- 61. Blaise A. Aguirre, MD, instructor in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. "Tami Green's life story of Borderline Personality Disorder recovery offers hope and inspiration to those asking the question, "Can I have a life with joy even though I have Borderline Personality Disorder?" Anthony W. Bateman, MA, MD, FRCPsych "Tami is supportive of others, listens carefully, and provides excellent information about the roles that family members can play in helping their loved ones to seek help and to recover. She not only gives hope to others but also provides effective practical advice about how patients can progress to recovery with the help of services and family members. We use her small book on self-help for managing the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder in my unit in the United Kingdom and our patients love it." Dr. Glen Gabbard, Professor of Psychoanalysis and Professor and Director, Baylor Psychiatry Clinic "I think your book, Self Help for Managing the Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder, is an extremely helpful and practical guide for people with the disorder. You are probably going to help a lot of people
- 62. John G. Gunderson, MD, Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School "Tami Green is living proof what our research states: that those with BPD can and do get better and stay better. Her encouragement to others to expect positive results from treatment is to be applauded.". Perry D. Hoffman, PhD, President of the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder (NEA-BPD) "Tami Green has a unique ability to put an articulate and hopeful face on what, for many years, was thought to be an untreatable clinical condition. She is to be applauded for her commitment and courageous efforts to reach out to the BPD community, clinicians, family members and consumers alike, with the banner of hope and good news that a happy, meaningful life with BPD is possible." John M. Oldham, MD, MS, Past President, American Psychiatric Association (APA) "Tami Green is an inspiration to us all, demonstrating that with courage, persistence, and the right treatment, persons with Borderline Personality Disorder can recover. Her mission, to spread the word that new research supports a picture of optimism and hope, is just the right one."
- 63. Playing... Z The circle after that is customers.
- 64. Three types of mentors 1.Direct. Someone who is in front of you who will show you how they did it. .
- 65. Three types of mentors 2.Indirect. Books. .
- 66. Three types of mentors 3.Everything is a mentor. Look around.
- 67. “Seek out people who have already achieved the dreamto which you aspire”, suggests Harvard psychology professor Daniel Gilbert in his book, Stumbling on Happiness. “We dream about our documentary being acclaimed at Sundance without considering the toil of producing it. We all dream of victory celebrations. Few of us fantasize about practicing. These successful achievers can share the reality with you both good and bad.”
- 68. Time it takes to reinvent yourself: five years. Year One: you’re flailing and reading everything and just starting to DO. Year Two:you know who you need to talk to and network with. You’re Doing every day. You finally know what the monopoly board looks like in your new endeavors. Year Three:you’re good enough to start making money. It might not be a living yet. Year Four:you’re making a good living. Year Five:you’re making wealth.
- 69. So, what if you really could reinvent your life? Start a new business? Find the perfect partner? Start a family? Lose weight? Get your reputation back?
- 70. Are you readyto learn what success feels like? Are you confusedabout what to do next? Tiredof spending countless hours working without seeing any results? Frustratedby the lack positive momentum? If so, I am here to help.
- 71. I created an entire course around this material! J
- 72. What's inside: One webinar with me each week for SIX weeks! Each module has: Worksheets, Bonus Material, Podcasts, Additional Videos Philosphy: Roll up our sleeves and dig deep, using the latest research and the most effect tips and techniques.
- 73. Do you like FREEBIES like I do? BONUS: 30 minute group Q and A with me each week BONUS: MP3 recordings of each webinar to listen to in your car EXTRA BONUS: Bundle of my best infographics and picture quotes to keep you inspired and to use on your own social media.
- 74. The price? $497 What it's worth? It may be the best investment you ever make.
- 75. Why I'm discounting the course: Because I am ON FIRE wanting to get this information into your hands as quickly as possible! It will change your life! Why it will go up in price soon: Because I have had an overwhelming response to this course. And as I get busier and busier, my time will be at a premium.
- 76. The price will be $597 after this weekend.
- 77. There are so many, just like you, who have reinvented their lives.
- 78. Case Study: Brooke Randolph of Indianapolis was a typical twenty-something single woman devoted to her career in social services, but what she really wanted was to adopt a child from abroad. Last year, at 32, she adopted a 6-year-old boy from Samoa.
- 79. Testimonials: “Tami, working with you has changed everything! My private practice is going gangbusters. And guess what? Dave and I are expecting a daughter next month!” -Physician, Little Rock, AR
- 80. “I wasn't sure what life would look like after my divorce, but I've found an amazing woman, Annabelle, and we are getting married late this year. And I am about to publish my next book. I will never forget all you've done for me.” -Public Speaker, Portland, OR
- 81. “I can't believe what a mess I was. You've really helped me believe in myself. I am much more confident now. And I'm going back to college this fall.” -Stay At Home Mom, San Marcos, TX
- 82. Perhaps you've put off doing this work because you're not sure where to start. The fear of the "unknown" might be preventing you from moving forward. Or maybe you're overwhelmed by the sheer amount of material you'll have to work through. Such fears are understandable, but you're smart. That's why you're here. S
- 83. The six week course: #1 Learn to-optimize your reinvention efforts to gain maximum traction. #2 Understand how to attract more friends whose efforts will help you reinvent yourself while you sleep. #3 Benefit from the knowledge of others ready to make your dreams come true.
- 84. You already know you can't ignore where you are in life. Others are already reaping the rewards of reinventing their lives. Why don't you?
- 85. I've done the hardest work for you, streamlining a course which focuses on the essentials of designing and achieving a new, better life. I will give you step-by-step guidance, holding your hand through the entire process. .
- 86. You need focused direction and insight from someone who's been there and done it for thousands of people JUST LIKE YOU. S
- 87. If you order RIGHT NOW you will also receive these HUGE BONUSES: Private Facebook Group with others on this journey. This member run private Facebook group is a place to ask questions, exchange ideas and connect with other like minded individuals, just like you! MP3 recordingof this webinar to listen to in your car! A Free Bonus webinarwith Q and A!!
- 88. Here's what you'll learn: How to create the life of your dreams, no matter what has happened. The weekly strategy for doing the work, broken down into bite-sized chunks. How to become more focused, so you have more time to work on what really matters to you. The key to making the action steps seem more like play. How to increase your happiness, using a proven strategy that works. How to attract positive people into your life.
- 89. If you're just starting out, this is THE BEST program to do it. As one of the foremost reinvention experts, I will provide the mentorship you need to succeed in your life. It can be the turning point in your life.
- 90. Bonus I promised if you stay until the end: tamigreenlifecoach.com/ notes You will also receive a link to a replay of this webinar in an email tomorrow!
- 91. Q and A