How To Sort For A High Quality Girl
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The document discusses the importance of maintaining perspective when pursuing romantic interests, drawing a parallel to skydiving advice about avoiding fixation on a single point. It warns against desperation when engaging with potential partners and emphasizes the value of continuously meeting and dating multiple people to maintain a healthy mindset. The author suggests that attraction should be mutual and exclusivity should only be considered when pressured by a partner.
How To Sort For A High Quality Girl
- 2. It's easy to miss the forest for the trees, when it comes to meeting girls and looking for Miss Right.
- 3. (Or Miss Right Now if that's your thing.)
- 4. Long time ago I went skydiving. It was the kind that required only about five minutes of instruction before jumping out of the plane.
- 5. We had an experienced jumper strapped to our backs, which would kind of hold our hand.
- 6. We got to pull the chute, but in case we blacked out or puked, he'd be there to make sure we didn't die.
- 7. One thing the guy told me right before we jumped has stuck in my mind, as it's very useful in many different areas.
- 8. "Don't look at a point on the ground.
- 9. You'll fixate on it and miss everything."
- 10. What he meant was that we were only free falling for about a minute.
- 11. And if we looked way down below, and saw a house or a car or something, we'd tend to stare at it. If that happened, our ride would be over and we would have missed it.
- 12. I followed his advice and didn't look down at all.
- 13. Just out onto the horizon.
- 14. (One of the most amazing experiences of my life.)
- 15. When you're talking to girls (or prospecting as they say in sales) it's easy to "fixate" on one girl.
- 16. There's a whole world of girls out there, but once you start talking to one, and she seems to like you a bit, it's very easy to lose the big picture.
- 17. Then suddenly she's turned from a "prospect" into the only game in town.
- 18. Sink or swim.
- 19. Win or lose.
- 20. Live or die.
- 21. If this happens, it's almost guaranteed you WON'T get her, unless she's TOTALLY into you.
- 22. One thing that turns both girls AND guys off is desperation.
- 23. Texting too much, calling too much, hanging onto conversations too much.
- 24. If she's got a medium level of attraction, this will kill it in a hurry.
- 25. Sure, there's certain "rules," like only text three times a week, or only call every other day, or whatever.
- 26. But if she's your ONLY option, these rules are impossible to follow.
- 27. You'll drive yourself nuts.
- 28. The EASIEST way to make sure you don't switch in to desperation mode is to ALWAYS BE PROSPECTING.
- 29. Meaning you should always be talking to girls, making them laugh, seeing if they're personalities are as attractive as their faces.
- 30. And always dating them if you're into each other enough.
- 31. AND always being open about it.
- 32. One criteria that you MUST have is that she should be into you AT LEAST as much as you are into her.
- 33. And when you're going out with several girls, and one of them starts pressuring you for exclusivity, then it's time to consider her.
- 34. But never before that.
- 35. This will make you more attractive, and give you much more choice, which will keep you out of the desperation mind set.