This document discusses the "Ladder of Inference", which describes the unconscious mental process by which people draw conclusions and make assumptions without being aware of the cognitive steps involved. It notes that climbing the ladder happens rapidly in our heads and can lead us to misguided beliefs. The document advocates using awareness, advocacy, and inquiry skills to surface our own thinking and consider other perspectives in order to understand others and communicate effectively. It provides guidance on balancing advocacy, which shares one's perspective, with inquiry, which seeks to understand other views through questioning.