How to secure a second date - part 1
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The document provides essential tips for securing a second date, emphasizing punctuality, appropriate appearance, and attentiveness. Key advice includes making eye contact, giving a genuine compliment, and keeping conversation light while being polite. It also suggests finding common interests and shows appreciation during the date, while advising against inappropriate jokes and saving the first kiss for later.
How to secure a second date - part 1
- 2. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE The Basics
- 3. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 1. Be on time. That goes for ladies as well as men. Being late is just rude. Don’t play games like the 15 minute rule.
- 4. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 2. Look and smell nice. That includes mints for your breath, using deodorant, and not dousing yourself in Axe body spray or perfume.
- 5. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 3. Dress appropriately for the activity or venue. Keep it classy, not trashy.
- 6. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 4. Make eye contact. Just don’t be too intense, keep the gaze soft.
- 7. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 5. Flip a compliment. Just one. For men, “you look nice” is enough. For women, complimenting him on a “nice shirt” is enough. Keep it cool.
- 8. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 6. Put the phone away. That means in a purse or pocket, not laying on the table between you, where your eyes will keep sliding over to it. Give your date the gift of your full attention.
- 9. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 7. Be you, but be the best version of you. Some people let it all hang out, as a kind of test. Those people rarely get second dates. Self-sabotage? Maybe.
- 10. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 8. Don’t drop any F-bombs and stay away from gross jokes. Some women love disgusting jokes but not many. You may turn her off completely.
- 11. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE Beyond Basics
- 12. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 9. Find out what each other’s passions are and connect that way. You’re looking for common interests that will lead to easy, flowing conversation and possibly spark a connection.
- 13. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 10. Talk as well as listen. Be aware of talking about yourself too much. Or maybe too little, which makes it hard to connect. Ask questions, and find something in common.
- 14. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 11. Keep it light. Steer clear from conversations about money, exes, your medical history, and things that make you angry. You don’t want to be remembered as angry guy (or girl).
- 15. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 12. Be polite to service staff and don’t try too hard to show your date what a nice polite person you are to service staff. Lots of people know this rule. Your date senses when you’re putting it on.
- 16. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 13. Show appreciation. Tell your date you’re having a good time. Yes, actually say it. Men love it when women show appreciation for the work they put into a date.
- 17. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 14. Be warm. It’s okay to be a little physical. Let the anticipation build. Brush or squeeze an arm. Notice how your date reacts to being touched. Skittish? Not a good sign. Responsive? Lucky you.
- 18. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE 15. Save the first kiss for a different date. You only get one first kiss. Let the romance begin!
- 19. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE Next slideshow: Analyzing the First Date, Asking for a 2nd Date.
- 20. HOW TO SECURE A SECOND DATE Author: Sophie Winters @thechachaclub Visit Sophie at www.thechachaclub.com Original Article: Singles Warehouse